Honestly
I never said i joined it.I was raised in it as a child,and when I was older made the decision on my own to leave,nobody forced me to stay,nobody tried to brainwash me into staying,I was always treated well by the Witnesses and I havent been to a meeting in at least 10 yrs.I have never been shunned by my family or the witnesses for my decision and yes I was even baptized.So not all ex-jehovahs witnesses feel so much contempt for them and in some cases there is reason for it,but not always.
First of all, you are liar. You say you never joined the religion, but then you say you were baptized. You joined the cult by being baptized. No two ways about it.
I was in the borg for 10 years, and although personally I never shunned anyone, I was told to do so.
After my disassociation, my brain-washed flesh brother, who lived rent-free in my house in Guadalajara as an adult with wife and children for eleven years, has shunned me since my leaving and I have lost all contact with him. My cousin, whose son lived in my house for over 6 months without any charge, told me she would not talk to me until I became a JW again. I was not disfellowshipped. I left on my own. So it was all freedom of choice to me.
I don't feel contempt for them (JWs), but instead I pity them. I was one of them and I know how sincere people can be trapped in their cult.
Thanks to them, I am an atheist. Had I not being there, I would probably still be trapped in some religion. I began asking myself some questions and came to the conclusion that the root of evil is in the bible.