17 Even if something is not handled just the way it should be, should we not have faith in Jesus Christ as the living Head of the Christian congregation? Is he not aware of what is happening in his own worldwide congregation? Should we not respect his way of handling the situation and recognize his ability to control matters? Really, ‘who are we to be judging our neighbor?’ (James 4:12; 1 Corinthians 11:3; Colossians 1:18) Why not bring your concerns before Jehovah in your prayers?
18 Because of human imperfection, difficulties or problems may arise. There may even be times when an elder errs, causing some to be disturbed. Our acting hastily under such circumstances will not change the situation. It may only serve to aggravate the problem. Those having spiritual discernment will wait on Jehovah to set things straight and administer whatever discipline may be needed in his own time and way.—2 Timothy 3:16; Hebrews 12:7-11.
19 What if you feel distressed over some matter? Rather than talking to others in the congregation, why not respectfully approach the elders for help? Without being critical, explain how you have been affected. Always have “fellow feeling” for them, and maintain respect as you confide in them. (1 Peter 3:8) Do not resort to sarcasm, but trust in their Christian maturity. Appreciate any Scriptural encouragement that they may kindly offer. And if it appears that other corrective measures are needed, have confidence that Jehovah will guide the elders to do what is good and right.—Galatians 6:10; 2 Thessalonians 3:13.
Yes, talk to the elders about how they screwed your life, then feel the warmth of the JC!
If, though, a wife willfully deprives her husband or if a husband deliberately fails to render the marriage due in a loving way, the partner may be left open to temptation.
WTF? I can see many elders using that one on some poor wife with a cheating husband.
^once again women are the cause of men's imperfections.
They're always blaming us aren't they Blondie?
^If some non-jw marriage counselors do "recognize Bible principles," are they qualified?
To be quoted in the craptower, yes. But you must not actually consult one yourself.
Jehovah's way = ^WTS way or the highway
not according to the counsel of others--^including the elders?
Oooh. Good one Blondie
"pay attention to my commandments"
Where is the commandment that says that oral sex is not allowed between people married to each other? Are we to believe that oral sex was not "invented" until after the bible was written?
Um, um. They know that 'light' is there, they just haven't found it yet....
^Publications play a more prominent place in this picture rather than Bible
Cellphone on bible lying on table
Wife has only one earring in each lobe (does your congregation have a "rule" for how many "good" Christian (jw) women wear?
Husband has no tie; I bet if we could see her whole outfit, she would have a skirt on.
Seems to be only one bible and husband has control of it
It is no accident that we can see his ring finger...or what do you think?
So the picture is a typical dub couple. Publications must take centre stage, phone handy in case wife shows rebellious attitude and hubby needs to report her to elders for her rebellious attitude. I remember our congregation 'local needs' talk on how one ear piercing was modest. Any more is reflecting a 'wordly' attitude and 'drawing attention to yourself'. I had three ear piercings
clear guidelines for husbands
continuing loving your wives...loving their wives as their own bodies
^so what Christian husband let alone jw husband should ever yell, scream, beat, or otherwise abuse his wife?
This is one of those scriptures they glow over, but don't actually follow.
by treating her tenderly, both in speech and in action (show me now)
^No swearing...no screaming...no hitting...no demeaning words
"do not treat her like a maid" "do not make a slave of her"
Did you know that women were property of men in the bible?
No matter how much the craptower tries to appear 'female friendly' they still talk of women like they are property.
^Did Jesus call Martha "a stupid cow" because she was busy cooking rather than listening to Jesus teach?
Oooooh. Another excellent point!
16) Having a quiet and mild spirit does not mean that a Christian woman does not have opinions or that her thinking is unimportant. Godly women of old, such as Sarah and Rebekah, took the initiative to express their concern about matters, and the Bible record shows that Jehovah approved of their actions. (Genesis 21:8-12; 27:46-28:4) Christian wives too can make their feelings known. However, they should do so considerately, not in demeaning tones. They will likely find that such communication will be more pleasing and effective. Having a quiet and mild spirit does not mean that a Christian (only jw) woman does not have opinions or that her thinking is unimportant. Godly women of old, such as Sarah and Rebekah, took the initiative to express their concern about matters, and the Bible record shows that Jehovah approved of their actions.
Yes, sisters are free to tell the elders what a great job they are doing in Jehovah's loving cult theocratic arrangement.
First the men, then the men and the women, next week, the "youths" another way of saying "young ones" an irritating phrase. Youths--Pursue Goals That Honor God the WTS
Looking forward to your comments on that one!
It has been a busy week, folks. I have been pursuing the cause of my new illness. The only good thing from it is that I am losing weight. Blondie has a few advoirpois, so no danger yet. We have been putting in the flowers and garden with a little help from our friends and neighbors.
Hope your feeling better soon
Blondie, when I was attending I used to dread the craptower studies, I look forward to yours. I take a far greater interest now that I ever did when I was a witless. Thank you
