the internet did nothing in affecting my decision for leaving. the horrid treatment of myself and others (when i was an 'a-ok' jw), finally clicked after i had been in about 8 congregations in my life and 5 of them were horrid, judgemental and didn't feel christian at all and three of them seemed like they were trying hard and weren't meddling every time someone made a fart at a meeting.
i left for good, faded out, with a feeling....not reading anything 'apostate' or on the internet. four years after fading out i read COC, then stepped up the research further on the internet.
so, it just took the congregations being themselves and treating people like dirt who deserved to be treated better....even when i was an MS i'd try to be friends with wits who the elders would ignore b/c they saw them as bad seeds and i couldn't understand why.....a older sister told me later that the only reason her son continued to come to meetings was because i didn't judge him and i was nice to him and didn't trip that he had long hair. i was 19 at the time and he was 15.
i really hope he didn't get sucked in b/c of me, but i thought i was doing the right thing at the time.
anyway, at 20 i faded, got sucked into a love study and lots of family trauma happened, so i was back 'in' at 22, then started fading again at 24.