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  Is JWD a healthy place to be for those who have left the Watchtower?

  by AK - Jeff in

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  everyday, that i read, write, think and talk about the watchtower society makes me think whether or not i have really left it for good.. .

  i fail to see the good in reliving the past in this way.

  the discussion board features individuals that have 3 to 6 years on the board and individuals who have left the organization more.

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  IF your whole family is still in it including your son/daughter its real hard to totally stop thinking about it ..so this is a pretty good place to shoot the S..T, or to be encouraged , and to share if u feel like it and also to plot the demise of the WTBTS..and the pictures are nice 2..and the ppl
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  Recent experience

  by fedorE in

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  i have a good friend female friend who happens to be gay.

  we met at work a long time ago in another city and stay in touch.

  anyways recently in toronto there was a dyk march and my friend came down and kept begging me to come hang with her so i did even though it made me feel out of place.

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  For sure
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  Recent experience

  by fedorE in

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  i have a good friend female friend who happens to be gay.

  we met at work a long time ago in another city and stay in touch.

  anyways recently in toronto there was a dyk march and my friend came down and kept begging me to come hang with her so i did even though it made me feel out of place.

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  This is actually a very condensed version of events.Things have gone on great in his personal life but his"family past" is tragic.
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  Recent experience

  by fedorE in

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  i have a good friend female friend who happens to be gay.

  we met at work a long time ago in another city and stay in touch.

  anyways recently in toronto there was a dyk march and my friend came down and kept begging me to come hang with her so i did even though it made me feel out of place.

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  I have a good friend female friend who happens to be gay. We met at work a long time ago in another city and stay in touch. Anyways recently in Toronto there was a dyk march and my friend came down and kept begging me to come hang with her so i did even though it made me feel out of place. But while i was there i suddently remembered i know someone who was gay from my childhood and i kept wondering if he was around here somewhere..So i contacted him, ill call him "John", through facebook. He was totally shocked that i contacted him and was afraid i would spill the beans to his family on his whereabouts. He is almost 50 yrs old now and has kept almost no contact with his family since age 21 or so. He made a total break from the cult and never looked back. What he told me, when he was comfortable with the confidentiality issue, was that his father regularly beat him in front of his family and no one said anything. He got beaten so much from his father that he would stay at home and not go to school or out of the house because of the welts and the embarrasment to the family name. He also beat his mom and no one said anything.One day he told his family he wasnt sure what path he was going to take because he felt gay and his father broke 2 ribs. Well John called the police and they took the father to the station, but he didnt even end up getting charged! The father forced him to go to the meetings against Johns will and also a judicial committee was set up to deal wit him. He went to this meeting and the elders started asking him questions about his morals.... He got quite upset and stood up and screamed at them that he didnt have to answer any questions One elder grabbed him by the arm to force him to sit down but he pushed him out of the way showing no respect for their supposed authority.He told them the meeting was over and he was leaving. But the elders said were not goin to let you use our phone how are u going to get a ride? He said ill just use the phone at the gas station (included is a lot of cursing)......When he got home he packed up his clothes and went ot live with a friend. He never looked back. He confided in me that before he got dfd he actually slept with a few sons of the elders!!! And stated it was easier than i would believe. ...His father now has Alzheimers and was put in an old age home. His one brother lives out of country and other siblings are not close. His mother lives alone. I told him about his mom and he is considering visiting her. John himself became very successful with no help from his family. Im glad im his friend today!
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  Is this letter rude? My wife thought so....

  by CaptainSchmideo in

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  please find enclosed my check for $109.50.

  while i am paying this bill, i believe that this charge is incredibly excessive.

  $93.50 of this bill is for a uroflowmetry, complex test.

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  holy crap in canada we can urinate for free
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  We've been invited to a JC

  by besty in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  for those of you don't know our story sweet pea and i stopped attending all meetings quite abruptly about 4 months ago.

  since then we have had a few ill-advised conversations with jw friends and family stating our reasons - sometimes in emails.

  also sp emailed a new friend on another forum her experiene with going to a new church.

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  Come about 5 minutes late to the jc mtg. Then bring with you a bottle of Jack Daniels in a brown paper bag. Pour some on ur self to make it seem uv been drinking. Barge into the room CRYING and sobbing about how unfair they are treating you. Put a pocket knife to your own throat and yell "I dont deserve to live if u and jeh wont help me - is this what u want u want me to kill myself- cause u guys are killing me!!!" dont stop crying til they reconveine ..Then throw away the knife and bottle and on ur hands and knees grab them around the ankes and ask for their forgiveness.

  then consider moving.
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  So...ya wanna see my ugly mug?

  by Little Drummer Boy in

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  i figure it's time.. i've been out of the borg long enough and i love you guys and trust you.. so....here i am for the world to see.... this is me striking a pose as systems administrator.. .

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  i love my servers.... oh, and "i believe you have my stapler?

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  Drew Carey's apostate brother!
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  What will be the Reaction to Barbera Anderson`s New CD?

  by OUTLAW in

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  2. scandals

  we all know the shit is going to hit the fan,with the release of barbera anderson`s new cd:"secrets of pedophilia in an american religion:jehovah`s witness`s in crisis".....the wbt$ is going to take a beating,so are the jehovah`s witness`s.....there are two reactions to consider..and..they are the subject of this thread................what will be the reaction of the wbt$?..and..what will be the reaction of jehovah`s witness`s?...outlaw

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  Some will say Jah is using the apostates to clean his own house.
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  What percentage of Witnesses are DFed at some point in their JW existence?

  by slimboyfat in

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  and, say, you don't think i could get disfellowshipped just for making a couple of posts on this site.

  slim.

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  GOD i wish someone would hurry up and get dfd in my family! But i would say 15-20% and significant portion of maybe 7-10% of those returning.I remember going years without ever hearing of anyone getting dfd from my congs in Canada but in the US i always heard of someone in trouble....lol
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  OPRAH should have Barb Anderson on as a guest...Whew!

  by fedorE in

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  talk about exposure!

  if there's one person that would grab wt's attention she could.

  a representative of the society would get clobbered so the likelyhood is of course nil.of course im just dreaming out loud...lol.

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  fedorE

  DECEMBER 31 2007 LIVE ON PPV.....

  GOV BODY MEM...TED JARACZ ON OPRAH

  ...LMAO!!! I WOULD ACTUALLY PAY TO SEE THAT!!