You men can make all the jokes you want, it does not change the seriousness of this topic.
A healthy active sex life is directly proportional to a healthy partnership between two people. I know Para is joking about going drinking with the guys at a strip club, in fact I find it mildly attractive that he teases me. We both make an effort to keep our sex life going strong.
He knows how to get my attention and turn me on. I know how to arouse him and make sure the only woman he wants to pounce on is me.
If he ever stopped making lascivious comments on a regular basis I would be concerned he didn't want me anymore.
There is nothing more satisfying in life than knowing your mate is happy and content, in all aspects of your life.
Bobbi
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40Sexless Marriages Could Threre Be a Direct Link by Being Raised JW?
by okiesooner1966 ini would like start by saying i having been married twice.
the first time i married a girl who was also raised a jw, sex was great when we first got married but after a couple of years it almost completely stopped.
the marriage did not last much longer i thought it was because we just grew apart and i became uninterested.
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Sexless Marriages Could Threre Be a Direct Link by Being Raised JW?
by okiesooner1966 ini would like start by saying i having been married twice.
the first time i married a girl who was also raised a jw, sex was great when we first got married but after a couple of years it almost completely stopped.
the marriage did not last much longer i thought it was because we just grew apart and i became uninterested.
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Bobbi
ARGHHHHH!!!
The point I was trying to make was men need to be attentive in all areas of married life. If you are disconnected from her daily life don't expect her to invite you to join her private life.
Just because you do the laundry don't expect to get any loving. Make a habit of being interested and the habit of regular sex will come to.
Foreplay is wonderful.
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Sexless Marriages Could Threre Be a Direct Link by Being Raised JW?
by okiesooner1966 ini would like start by saying i having been married twice.
the first time i married a girl who was also raised a jw, sex was great when we first got married but after a couple of years it almost completely stopped.
the marriage did not last much longer i thought it was because we just grew apart and i became uninterested.
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Bobbi
I was going to be all nice and say it happens to everyone and not worry. BUT I am in a bad mood with a headcold so you are getting cranky Bobbi.
Make an EFFORT. Take a good long look at yourself. Can you honestly say you help out around the house. When was the last time you carried the laundry to washer or the clean stuff to the right room. When did you last vacuum or wash a floor. Do you even know where the cleaning supplies are?
Do you tell your wife you think she is sexy and attractive? Do you flirt with her and make her feel that you want her as much as when you first got together?
From personal experience, I put on weight after having my kids and I lost alot of my confidence about my sexuality. I also found that after having kids it was harder to achieve orgasms. Talk to her about it. She might not initiate sex because she thinks that it will take so much effort to please you and herself and she is too tired.
Get some "toys".
Stop looking for someone to blame and sweet talk your sexy momma into bed and rock her world. Frequently.
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The fade is over, talked to my parents last night. (very very long)
by Paralipomenon inthere would never be a good time to have this conversation.
quite different from most people raised a witness, i have very few horror stories about my upbringing.
my family was just a family, my mom and dad fought and argued, my siblings and i misbehaved and got in trouble.. .
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Bobbi
Just a thought, Do I have to talk to my parents now?
Just my luck too, your parents still want us in their lives even with all the differences. So much for my plan to DA myself and totally mess up my fathers chances for spiritual advancement in his congregation.
Back to plotting my revenge.
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How do I flirt, not acting desperate at the same?
by tsunami_rid3r infirst i'll blame the fact that growing up as a witness, it was hard flirting with girls.
most of my younger days were spent at congregation gatherings, and it was hard trying to go up and talk to the girls.
both parents had to know about it, and it was quite a serious issue.
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Bobbi
Para, you are killing me!!!!!
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Girl Fluff....your favorite makeup?
by restrangled inthere is so much available at every price point.
what have you discovered is right for you?.
just recentley i discoverd loreal's bare naturals, minerals.
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Bobbi
I had my eyes fixed (lasik) about 2 years ago and threw out all my makeup so I didn't inadvertently reinfect my vulnerable eyes.
I also had to relearn how to apply my make up since I no longer had to compensate for thick lenses.
I swear by Revlon lipstick.
I used maybelline mascara and covergirl concealer. I love eye shadows and usually buy Maybelline unless i fall in love with a colour from another line.
When I turned 30 I started using a moisturizer with an spf to try and stall the aging process that is starting to run rough shod over my face.
I would really like to find a under eye puffiness reducer. I used to use one from Avon but i find it too sticky.
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The fade is over, talked to my parents last night. (very very long)
by Paralipomenon inthere would never be a good time to have this conversation.
quite different from most people raised a witness, i have very few horror stories about my upbringing.
my family was just a family, my mom and dad fought and argued, my siblings and i misbehaved and got in trouble.. .
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Bobbi
Come home early baby and I'll make you feel all better. wink wink
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The fade is over, talked to my parents last night. (very very long)
by Paralipomenon inthere would never be a good time to have this conversation.
quite different from most people raised a witness, i have very few horror stories about my upbringing.
my family was just a family, my mom and dad fought and argued, my siblings and i misbehaved and got in trouble.. .
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I love you.
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Did You Purposely Avoid Certain People In Your Hall???
by minimus ini knew of some elders that were very intimidated by a certain elder's wife.
she regularly wrote letters to the society and circuit overseer telling them about the foibles of certain elders.
she was the type that when she raised her hand for a comment that you better call on her or you'd be approached by her right after the meeting.
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Bobbi
I tried to avoid Para cause he was such a bad influence on me. Just look what happened since then.
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Does The Watchtower Society encourage Home Schooling?
by journey-on inwith their discouragement of higher education, you would think the wts would encourge parents to.
remove their children from the public education system altogether.
if just the basic reading, writing, and.
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Bobbi
When the CO was standing at my door a few months ago we talked a bit about schools. He suggested that home schooling was the best and I should look into it since I am a stay at home mom and have the time available.
No I didn't kick his teeth in.
I said home schooling leads to young adults who are incapable of surviving in our society and home schooling them does not prepare them for the real world.
He backed off.
Bobbi (who has all the time on her hands what with three kids, house cleaning, cooking, laundry and being Para's personal sex goddess)