sorry thomas 15 you near newbie....welcome!......i was very nearly married/divorced twice recently.......my first wife went pretty much insane and her story should be on oprah...i tried so hard but could not save the marriage of many years.......now i have changed...i woke up to jw and my wife is so hardcore dub it is frightening....just like i frighten her.....so people change and if this marriage of many years fails, just what does that indicate about my character. IMO two failed marriages indicate NOTHING......not even bad luck.....FOUR would be bad luck...lol
as to your first post....i agree with Keyser........there is an equal chance that SHE is the one having the most "evening fun"......and she could "stick him with the bills" if it ends in divorce.....to think otherwise is probably a bit chauvinistic and JW .....and in........"the poor weaker vessel"............oompa