At first I though absolutely, then I was told about the time cards they use. I found out that all the bible chats were written down like it was work. That offended me, and I decided why encourage this so it came to a crashing end.
I will not engage any witness, because it gives them purpose.
I also believe that blood is thicker than water-family first, no matter how nutty it gets.
I also have issues about gradual fading-although I understand the purpose thoroughly. I hate beating around the bush.
Best advise-do what you need slowly- a letter is unretrievable-therefore final. Take your time. Good luck.