I realize that some people feel justified in lying to elders. And I don't judge anyone for that choice. But my whole motivation in making this change is based on conscience. I want to be a good and honest person. If this means things might go bad for me, then I'll deal with that. But I feel that I have to be honest to everyone.
This issue actually came up with my conversation with my father. He's under the impression that without christian beliefs - accountability to a god - it's not possible to live a good life because you can justify anything. I disagree. I think that belief in god is not necessary to have good morals, and that our conscience (natural law) is enough IF we listen to it.