Posts by harleau

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I know for her it is complicated

by oblivious in

"my girlfriend was raised jw she was'nt allowed to use the phone, and was brought up very strict to say the least.

she has a 4 year old daughter, and recently moved back home with her family were she lives in their living room.

she can't call me and our only communication is through emails, when she can sneak to the computer.

harleau

I don't know who you are and I wasn't speaking to you in the first place. And no, you nothing of my religion or me.

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I know for her it is complicated

by oblivious in

"my girlfriend was raised jw she was'nt allowed to use the phone, and was brought up very strict to say the least.

she has a 4 year old daughter, and recently moved back home with her family were she lives in their living room.

she can't call me and our only communication is through emails, when she can sneak to the computer.

The truth is in all of our hearts because Jehovah put it there. It's a choice you guys made not to follow Jehovah. That's all. I'm not doing anything wrong by being on the internet and if I am, well tough luck. I had a question and need an outside opinion to answer. Is that wrong? I'm not supposed to ask questions because most of you have been Witnesses longer than I have been alive?

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Dating a non-jw

by Collegegurl in

just a little back story since i don't really post much here.

i'm 21, i go to school full time and work parttime.

i live with my parents.

harleau

I had a friend who was just disfellowshipped over the same thing. Do not lose your relationship with Jehovah over a man, because once it's gone, it's darn hard to get back.

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Huh?

by harleau in

my sister says she's a lesbian.

we are in the truth.

she wants me to meet her girl friend?

harleau

Me being a Witness does not make me stupid and does it sound like I'm playing games? I'm in college to get my Phd of Applied Science, thank you very much!

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Dating a df girl who wants to go back - Do I have a chance?

by mrburns in

having read some of the previous posts, i'm pretty sure what the majority answer will be.

my situation is similar.

we met a little over a year ago, she got df over her relationship with me, something that put her in a pretty long depression that she gradually grew out of (with some notable setbacks along the way).

harleau

You will probably get broken up with anyway when she goes back to the truth. She has to be pleasing in the eyes of Jehovah. So, I would suggest ending it now and allowing her a clean break and the opportunity to do what is right.

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I know for her it is complicated

by oblivious in

"my girlfriend was raised jw she was'nt allowed to use the phone, and was brought up very strict to say the least.

she has a 4 year old daughter, and recently moved back home with her family were she lives in their living room.

she can't call me and our only communication is through emails, when she can sneak to the computer.

harleau

There is no rule stating that I can't be online!

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I know for her it is complicated

by oblivious in

"my girlfriend was raised jw she was'nt allowed to use the phone, and was brought up very strict to say the least.

she has a 4 year old daughter, and recently moved back home with her family were she lives in their living room.

she can't call me and our only communication is through emails, when she can sneak to the computer.

harleau

I was using the word we as plural for witnesses. We are not in a cult!!!!!

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my JW boyfriend wants reinstatement. What do i do

by worldly girl81 in

for the past 5 months i have been in a wonderful relationship.

he and i had started out as friends a few years ago, but realized that we were attracted to each other while he was going through his divorce earlier this year.

he and his now ex wife are both jws .

harleau

I say congratulate him for wanting to go back. Good choice, Brother. The world is ending and those of us faithful to Jehovah will survive.

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I know for her it is complicated

by oblivious in

"my girlfriend was raised jw she was'nt allowed to use the phone, and was brought up very strict to say the least.

she has a 4 year old daughter, and recently moved back home with her family were she lives in their living room.

she can't call me and our only communication is through emails, when she can sneak to the computer.

harleau

We are not a cult!!!!

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Dating a Disfellowshipped Chick

by SonoftheTrinity in

i'm this orthodox christian dating a disfellowshipped jw chick.

my priest says there's hope because she's been disfellowshipped and to give it 6 months.

one minute says she wants to become a citizen, the next minute i tell her that if she does that as an american i would expect her to salute the flag and especially vote if she naturalizes, and then she talks about going back to her own country!!.

harleau

Okay, so Jehovah's Witnesses are Christians. So, she didn't lie to you by telling you she was Christian. But to be honest, the organization does not recommend that we date people outside of our religion because when the time comes, yoou will turn on us. It's to be expected. So, she is probably already in a bit more trouble than you realize. Second, she doesn't want to vote because we do not believe in a wordly system. Just God's system. So there is no reason for us to contribute our opinins to a Wordly Man. The only one we have to answer to is Jehovah. So, I'm guessing no. It probably won't work. Your beliefs are so different. It would not just benefit you, but also her if you guys were to separate.