My wife and I are in that very same position. The assistant store manager when she first Hired in 2 years ago. He seemed like a nice guy. He had been married before and got divorced from his first wife for having an affair with one of his cashiers. He married this girl, really sweet, OH and she was raised a JW! She said that she was never baptised, I asked her when I found out her past. Anyways, my wife is like the mom of the store. Anybody can take their problems to her and she will give sound advice.
So, this asst store mgr. goes to her and tells her that he has chemistry for one of the cashiers. Here we go again. Of course my wife tells him to be careful and to think about what he has with his wife. basically, she said to KEEP OUT! Well, guess what happens...YUP, he took the big dive. Did the dirty deed and to top it off, come to find out one of his sub dept mgrs was also dipping this cashier. Oh, she happened to married also.
Anyways, the asst store mgr got found out by CORP. , the cashier narked on him and he got FIRED!! His wife never found out the real reason he got fired, he told her it was for fraternizing with employees at a wedding.
So, here is my wife and I. We get together with them on occasion and we are NOT going to say anything to her. NONE of OUR business. I do not wantto be the one to break this poor girls heart. She's only 27 and he's in his 40's with a teenage daughter. Yes. I would like to tell her annonymously, leave her a note on her car, but I can't. I am not a mean person. BUT! If it were being done to me, the cheating on, I would like to know myself.
NMG