Newlight's husband here... and I was SO proud to find out about all this! She showed more integrity than I could have. I probably would have taken the 'below the radar' approach, and just weaseled my way thru just to make them happy and leave me alone.
So this is good, although I doubt this is the end of it. If they tell the other elders anything about this, they may push for a JC meeting, or just announce our DA. Either way, we're in control here, and we have nothing to lose.
Freedom!