RR,
JC = Judicial Committee (not Jesus Christ, not judgmental codgers)
Jesussaves,
I ran into an elder on my JC during the holiday season, and he DID shun me (as I was DF'd...). He was there with a large group, but this place was all the way across the metro area from where he lives (because he was visiting his dad).
He sure didn't expect to see me! I just flashed him my grin, as I sat and ate with my DF'd friend and his wife (both decent, church going people, BTW).
I haven't heard from this one since, but I did shortly thereafter get a phone call from the elders on THIS side of town, apparently attempting to see if I wanted to be reinstated. (I wrote them back a letter, so they would have it documented, that I didn't wish for them to contact me any further.)
-J.R.
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