Hello,
Quick background: I'm 47, married with two boys one in and the other out of college
Since Sept. 08 I have:
1), lost my Mother,dad is still living across the country.
2), one of my son's had several seizures, medically no reason can be found ( they think it might just be stress. He recently graduated with a bachelors degree in computer animation but except for freelancing, there is nothing out there right now. So he is still living at home.)
3) Dissasociated myself (along with my wife) from the JW's. Its a long story!
4), youngest son is still trying to decide what to do in college, he does not like living at home, but since he has no job he cannot afford to live on his own.
Suddenly I find myself having lost almost all desire to do anything.
When my kids were younger i would always be doing some project with them, it really kept me focused. Now that they are grown it seems there is not much I find interesting anymore.
I recently heard a comment taken from the latest Indiana jones movie, " you reach an age where life stops giving you things and it starts to take them away" good grief, I feel that this so so true right now. The JW mindset that everything should wrap around the hope for the future is still nagging me (just a little bit) so I'm working on overcoming this.
My wife just loves searching other religions,but I'm really not at that point yet.
I have written several stories that have been published, but I just cannot get in the "groove' for this lately
i would really appreciate any comments you have regarding dealing with mid-life and the crisis that sometimes comes along with it