hi barry
With the child abuse I don't think any faith is guiltless or government organisation for that matter, and if someone does an unbiased search you'll find Jw's don't particularily stand out, like I've said I've known a few non-witness cases and in one the case wasn't deemed strong enough to take to court and the other it was dealt with without involving the police basically the guy was thrown out but no more and in another it was revealed too late and the perpetrater already dying of old age, in one the police were called in and he went to prison, in the witness case I only know that the police were called and the man was convicted got 2 years in prison and also got disfellowshipped. Sometimes we have to judge from personal experience, I was never molested or left alone with elders or brothers who were not family members and this was through the 70's and 80's and I won't have other people tell me my experiences are not as valid as their's. There is a danger on these forums of having things rewritten for you by other people who try and replace your memories with a kind of group memory, it's easy to tell which people on here were once witnesses and which are just ones repeating what is the group line and various things come up again and again. This happens on all subjects
I watched an old black and white movie last night it's a classic with john mills called "The gentle gunman" lol not a western but a inside look at IRA and Irish people during the war, and it made a point that has just come back to me. there's a woman that has just had her husband die as an IRA fighter and her son is about to die for the cause too and she says to the leader 'you killed him because before you came he was happy and free but you told him he wasn't happy and he wasn't free and in doing that you took away his freedom and his happiness because he'd have lived his life without thinking these things"
You can use the same points against Jw's but this is were you can decide for yourself...if what this site says is what you actually have experienced then fine. If when I went from door to door and people thought I was talking rubbish then they have decided using their own judgement. when I go back to Jw's I go back having experienced 11 years of the opposite and much was fun but much was exactly as I had be warned of but ignored. JW's give me information but I still put it agianst my own memories not someone else's.
Many on here are sincere they genuinely think they are saving us but that doesn't mean you can't judge for yourself, and when your reading a wt on here thats been edited to certain bits and taken out of it's time context I recommend checking the date and remember that even 20 years ago the world was a different place. because we are radically changing as a world nearly as much as the beginning of the industrial age, it's the "internet age" family dynamics are radically changing too.
You know I never was really aware of the wts when I was a witness it was all 'we are Jehovah's witnesses' the wts was just a magazine and I prefered the awake (especially the crossword puzzles I miss them) How many faiths could stand the sort of scrutiny this site gives the WTs? None! in making ourselves delve so deeply into it's past and the lifes of gb members we fall into the trap Jesus mentioned luke 4:22-24
22 All spoke well of him and were amazed at the gracious words that came from his lips. "Isn't this Joseph's son?" they asked.
23 Jesus said to them, "Surely you will quote this proverb to me: 'Physician, heal yourself! Do here in your hometown what we have heard that you did in Capernaum.' "
24 "I tell you the truth," he continued, "no prophet is accepted in his hometown.
No faith run by and full of imperfect people can stand that sort of scrutiny, That why I go with doctrine and not imperfection issues.
barry said - With the issue of smoking other churches have sdvised their members of the dangers of this habit decades before the WT
Yes advised but how many listened? In England our government has spent millions on advertising to advise us of non-smoking over many many years but it didn't yield much result but since they actually brought in the law putting a total smoking ban in Public buildings there has been at least a 17% drop in smokers.....
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