Congrats dude! I am working on my master's degree as we speak. It's a long row to hoe some days. I encourage everyone to go 'back to school' if they feel they were denied an education as a Dub.
Indo_Dude
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Graduating from collge next week
by NYCkid ini just wanted share that i am graduating from columbia university next week with an undergraduate degree in sociology at the age of 39. see, it's never too late, for anyone out there considering attending college.. my partner and around 10 of my closest friends will be there to cheer me on, which is overshadowing any disappointment that my family will not be there, or as of today, yet to acknowledge this accomplishment that means so much to me (i sent grad announcements a few weeks ago along with an invite).
in all honestly, they live across the country so it is an expensive trip.. anyway, despite the student loans, hard work and sacrifices, it has been well worth it.
i remember back in h.s in the late 1980s, i begged my parents to let me attend college, but of course, the end was coming and it was a waste of time.
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California Court Affirms Right To Gay Marriage
by BenV injust got this email!.
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/16/us/15cnd-marriage.html?partner=rssnyt&emc=rss.
ben (celebratin' with friends).
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Indo_Dude
A good day indeed! Slowly but surely the courts are overturning hate based legislation. California has 36 million people which is a huge win. Add in Mass, with a population of 6.5 million almost 15% of the US population live in states with gay marriage. Add in the civil union laws of New Jersey at 8.5 million people, Vermont with 625,000 people, Connecticut with 3.4 million, and New Hampshire 1.3 million, and almost 57 million Americans (19%) have same sex marriage / civil union rights.
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Does anyone have parents who have left the BORG after you did?
by Alexia inim thinking about my mother today.
shes been in the truth for over 30 years now baptized in her mid 20s.
she had been faithful the whole time despite being married to a severe alcoholic (my father only studied) for 27 years.
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Indo_Dude
Both of my parents stopped being JWs after they saw how I was treated when the elders were being abusive towards me and being gay. It was the straw that broke the camel's back. After I left they left the JWs about a year after I stopped. My sister also stopped soon after they did. Now, none of my immediate family members are JWs. My coming out as gay was truly a blessing for everyone. Before, our family was very distant and argued all the time. Now my dad is almost my best friend. We only fight now once in a blue moon, and they support me 100% in my life, my boyfriend, and my education pursuit.
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Any other gays?
by dwtnphotog inhi, just wanted to see if i have any "brothers" in the great state of california or anywhere for that matter.
it would be nice to have some support and help for each other!
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Indo_Dude
My boyfriend / partner belongs here too. He is 'Male Formed'. He's been traveling alot for his work so hasn't had much time to post here at JWD. The few days a month he is home, we usually spend alone and disconnect from the rest of the world.
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Any other gays?
by dwtnphotog inhi, just wanted to see if i have any "brothers" in the great state of california or anywhere for that matter.
it would be nice to have some support and help for each other!
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Indo_Dude
Philly here.
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What are some of your memories pre 1975?
by karter ingoing to an international assembly 1974 and one of the gb leo greenlees saying"this will most likely be the last international assembly this side of armageddon".. poeple selling their houses.. storing up food.. wondering what went wrong on dec 31 1975!.
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Indo_Dude
I don't remember 1985 much less 1975.
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Windfall taxes on Oil Companies - for it or against it?
by UnConfused ini'm for it.
they don't "need" to increase priced due to demand - they just can so they do.
when prices are at record highs and profits are at record highs....time to tax them for windfall profits i think .
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Why have a windfall tax? Who gets to decide how much is 'too much'? What about lottery winners, should they be windfall taxed above and beyond normal income taxes too? What about Big Pharma? They have much higher profit margins. What about that big pay raise at work? Should that get 'winfall' taxed too? What happens if you make more than most people in the same job category?
Winfall tax proposals, is pandering to the populace. No one forces you to buy oil or gasoline. If you don't like the price, don't buy it.
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What Its Like To Be A Gay Ex JW....
by str8?so is spaghetti..until you heat it up ini guess its time to throw my little story out there.
i keep reading everyones stories and thinking how brave you have all been, coming out of the organisation and facing all the repercussions of doing so.. .
i only last august disassociated myself.
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Indo_Dude
I guess I can add to the love bombing. Always good to see another homo-breathern here. Welcome.
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"Why does America always bomb other countries?", my son asked tonight.
by digderidoo infirst of all i do not want to turn this into an american bashing thread, that is not my intention at all.. i would like to hear americans opinions as to what my thirteen year old son asked me tonight.. on the way back from swimming tonight my two sons (13 and 11) and myself started talking about wars.
my 11 year old was the first to bring it up talking about wwi & ww2.
we had an interesting conversation about it, then the subject got onto nuclear bombs.
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Indo_Dude
Who r u wrote: Indo I'm glad you are a voter, I equate non-voting much more with being a mind control cultist then with a persons political leanings or patriotism. There are great patriots in both parties, in the military and in civilian life. It doesn't make you a brain dead cult follower, it makes you someone who cares enough about your country that you will participate. The election in 2004 wasn't won or lost by the people that voted it was lost by all the non-voting blow hards (the majority) who were to lazy to get off their ass and get to a voting booth.
Unfortunately I don't think getting them off their lazy asses simply to vote would change much. Is a massive influx of uninformed voters "good"? As I have posted elsewhere, let's be honest; America's elections are nothing more than popularity contests. How many voters do you really know that are up to speed on most of the issues, and where each candidate stands on them? The most qualified candidates get eliminated pretty quickly. It's about TV personnas. So it takes more than 15 minutes once every 4 years to "do something" in my opinion. How to get more people to sit up and take notice of real issues? I can't answer that. No idea.
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"Why does America always bomb other countries?", my son asked tonight.
by digderidoo infirst of all i do not want to turn this into an american bashing thread, that is not my intention at all.. i would like to hear americans opinions as to what my thirteen year old son asked me tonight.. on the way back from swimming tonight my two sons (13 and 11) and myself started talking about wars.
my 11 year old was the first to bring it up talking about wwi & ww2.
we had an interesting conversation about it, then the subject got onto nuclear bombs.
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Indo_Dude
None of us alive today will ever KNOW how history will judge this decade. Perhaps it will say it was a small price to pay for the magnificent changes
that resulted.......perhaps not. You may be long dead before the causality is apparent.
That certainly is true; however we can use history as a guide to understand the implications of similar current events. My guess is that much like the Vietnam war the Iraq war will bring about more fundamental changes in America vs. the "opponent". By in large the Republican party is probably vanquished from power for 20 to 30 years due to this administration, which is unfortunate. The true Republicans never had a shot at forming the govt into their ideal, as the party was hijacked by religious nut jobs. I consider myself to be a very pro-business, progressive, Democrat. Govt should stay out of the marketplace for all but the barest of essentials.
By late next year both our budgets and military will be at a breaking point. America's war in Iraq will be ending shortly, regardless of who's in the Oval Office. The key is what will happen late next year when our forces need to drawn down in Iraq to 50,000 to 60,000 at most since that is all we will be able to support. Does all out civil war break out? My bet is yes. But who knows?