Thanx everyone for your support.
It did feel a little cultish now that I think about it.
Once I get my $ I will be done with it completely.
Jes
Posts by Jesika
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42I refuse to lie to have a job!!!!!!
by Jesika income to find out, the things i was telling people about the products we were selling were lies.
i am not comfortable lying to people to sell a product.
i really don't like being lied to and then finding out later most everything i was told to do was bs.
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A mssg To Cruzanheart.
by Mecurious? inhi, its good to see that your hanging in there.
i knew your father and worked out in field service with him on a few occasions(in redbird and desoto halls).
i still live in the dallas area.
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Jesika
Hey Brian,
I have know Cruzanheart since I was 4. We went to the same hall for a while (white rock cong).
I live in Carrollton now. I was disfellowshiped when I was 15 (I did that on purpose)
My dad's last name is Thoman (pronounced toemen) you know the name???
You can send me a private message with your ph# if you want me to call you. Just click on my name and click on send a message.
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A mssg To Cruzanheart.
by Mecurious? inhi, its good to see that your hanging in there.
i knew your father and worked out in field service with him on a few occasions(in redbird and desoto halls).
i still live in the dallas area.
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Jesika
Hello and welcome!!
I called Cruzanheart's house and told them about this post.
I am sorry about your sister.
I hope to hear more from you.
Jes
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I refuse to lie to have a job!!!!!!
by Jesika income to find out, the things i was telling people about the products we were selling were lies.
i am not comfortable lying to people to sell a product.
i really don't like being lied to and then finding out later most everything i was told to do was bs.
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Ascot, you are too cute. Thanx
LOL@ _b12
This is why I love you guys!!!!!!! I was feeling a little reserved about my decision, but I feel more confident about my choice now.
I feel good about not pounding the pavement though LOL!!
Love you all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
edited to add-----Ummmm why TH???
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I refuse to lie to have a job!!!!!!
by Jesika income to find out, the things i was telling people about the products we were selling were lies.
i am not comfortable lying to people to sell a product.
i really don't like being lied to and then finding out later most everything i was told to do was bs.
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Jesika
The name of the company is L.J.L. and Ass. or DS-Max.
They are supposed to have offices all over the world, and they have been around for a while. But since they have lied so much, I don't know what to believe anymore.
I am bummed I don't have a job again, but I don't want THAT job. I can't worry about cops all the time, or going to jail/fines.
Well, back to the drawing board come Monday, but at least I can enjoy my life again.
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I refuse to lie to have a job!!!!!!
by Jesika income to find out, the things i was telling people about the products we were selling were lies.
i am not comfortable lying to people to sell a product.
i really don't like being lied to and then finding out later most everything i was told to do was bs.
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Jesika
Well, I was very excited about finding the job I had. Come to find out, the things I was telling people about the products we were selling were lies.
I am not comfortable lying to people to sell a product. I really don't like being lied to and then finding out later most everything I was told to do was BS.
On top of the lying, they didn't tell me I had to pay 3 % of every check I would take plus a check fee on top of that. Why in the hell do I HAVE TO PAY these fees??!!!
Plus, when I was out in Mesquite (suburb of Dallas) a guy called the cops on us and the cops came and told us we needed permits to sell things in that city. They ran our DL's and took 2 of the guys to jail cause they had warrents. They told us if they caught us in Mesquite again, they would take us to jail and fine us unless we had permits. When I asked about the permit situation, my boss just told me if we talk really nice to the cops, they won't take us to jail. What kind of answer is that????!!! And if they fined me ($) do I have to pay for it?? Or would they tell me I didn't talk nice enough and that's why they took me to jail and fined me???
I am not going to jail for anyone, and I shouldn't have to pay for my own permit if I am selling YOUR stuff!!
Plus, I was using my own car and my own gas $ to go out and sell their products!! Since I have a truck, I don't have enough room to keep all the products inside the cab, so if someone decided to help themselves to the stuff in the back, guess who is responsible for it?? You guessed it....ME!!
So, everytime I saw a cop yesterday I was paranoid of going to jail. I kid you not, we saw at least 8 different cops in 2 cities. I saw it as an omen.
I wanted a job that I could work 8hrs and go home. Well, I have been getting up at 4:30-5:30 am every morning and not getting home till 8pm. That's a LONG day. I never have any time to spend with my boyfriend or to do any cleaning around the house. The same dishes have been in the sink for a week!! I only have about 2hrs when I get home to clean, eat, unwind, etc. Plus, they want us to go out on Saturday too. When I agreed to take the job, I said I could spare a Sat here and there, but not a 14hr day!!! That is taking away from time I have with my son, which is only about 2 days a week!!
And since I work so late and get up so early, I have no time to look for anything else. (job)
So, I am up early, I get to the office at 6:15-7:15am and don't get out to do any selling untill 10am. The rest of the time they are going over their systems of selling and getting you motivated for about 2-3 hrs. Then when you get out to sell stuff, you are walking around for 8hrs (no 1hr lunches) carrying a bag full of products (not light). So, when I am done at the end of the day, my feet hurt, my back hurts, and if I don't sell enough I go home with about $10 like yesterday. That barely covers gas and lunch.
So, I wasn't told all this in the beginning, and I have been decieved. I hate telling people something and come to find out I was lying to them without even knowing it. Most of the products they sell they make themselves, but tell people they will be coming out in stores and it is a promotion we are doing. This come to find out is total BS. I was very mad when one of the guys told me they would never be in the stores. I honestly thought that's what would happen!!
So, I am pissed off and I quit today. I didn't call in or anything, and Alex (my boyfriend) seemed ok with it-- he smiled at me when he was leaving for work this morning. He kissed me on my forehead and told me to get some rest. Boy did I need the rest!!
I will call my boss later, after she is out of the office so I don't get the "candy coated" answer since she won't be in frount of anyone. I will explain that it is taking too much of my time and I have a life outside of work that I haven't been able to enjoy anymore cause the job it VERY time consuming. They have a security account and I have about $32 in it, so I will arrange to go and get that $ so I can give it to my x for my son until I find another job.
I guess I wouldn't have been so upset, but I was lied to and it made ME lie to people. I hate that!!
Would you have done the same???? Let me know what you think, I think I did the right thing by quitting.
You all's input would be welcomed!!!!!!!!
Love,
Jes
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Help she is trying to get to my son!!!!!!! FINAL CHAPTER
by Jesika inok, well here is the end of this crazy story............................
the court date was set for the 17th (monday).
i got my new next door neighbor to represent me and my now x husband.
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LOL @ Nathan and _b12
To everyone else, thanx. I feel so much better now that it has been resolved and is now in "stone".
I DARE her to do anything else!!!!!!!
I wish I could see her face when she finds out she has to pay OUR fees LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!
What is that saying??? When you mess with the bull you get the??? HORNS!!!!!!!!!! wooooooo hoooooo take that!!!!!!!!!!!!
Can you tell I am excited?? LOL
See you guys around, and thanx again.
Jes
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Help she is trying to get to my son!!!!!!! FINAL CHAPTER
by Jesika inok, well here is the end of this crazy story............................
the court date was set for the 17th (monday).
i got my new next door neighbor to represent me and my now x husband.
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Jesika
Very funny elsewhere.
Tex-----Ya he was bluffing, and I am glad he was, but you never know. I was ready for a fight, but it proved to be an easy win.
DFW---Thanx and I will. (have a glass of merlot right now)
Ascot---Cheers to you too luv. If you make it to Tex you can bet I will take you up on that.
LB------Amen to that brotha!!!
I won't be online very much, I have been working about 12hrs a day, and studying my manual, so I don't have alot of time to be online. Hey, someone has to still do the laundry and dishes around here.
I just had to share with you all what happened. I hope to read more of your responses, and will get back to the board as soon as I can.
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Help she is trying to get to my son!!!!!!! FINAL CHAPTER
by Jesika inok, well here is the end of this crazy story............................
the court date was set for the 17th (monday).
i got my new next door neighbor to represent me and my now x husband.
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Ok, well here is the end of this crazy story............................
The court date was set for the 17th (Monday). I got my new next door neighbor to represent me and my now x husband. (nice to have a lawyer next door)
Anyways, we showed up in court, and when the judge called our case #, we were the only ones to show. My x mother in law didn't show and neither did her lawyer. They had filed a continuence and didn't even show for their own motion.
So, the judge left us for last just in case the opposing side showed up late. Well, they didn't show.
So, we went before the judge and stated it was an uncontested divorce, all property was resolved, my son's primary residence at this time is with his father, I have weekends and any extended stay with my son,we have joint custody, I agreed with his father to pay $350 a month in child support, and we counter sued my x mother in law for all court and lawyer fees and the judge granted that.
Basically, we got EVERYTHING we asked for, and we had to pay absolutely NOTHING to get divorced.
So, I will soon be legally divorced (FINALLY) and she can never interfere again unless she files her own suit, which will be very costly and a waste of time.
WE WON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am feeling very good right now, with the court case going the way we hoped and my new job that I am surrounded by postitive people all day long!!!
*pick up your drinks* Let us toast to a new begining and a huge victory!!!!
Love you all, and thank you for all the support you have given me!!!!
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HEY ANIMAL
by WildTurkey in.
animal if you like women, you will respond to this post within 3hours!!
the whole board is watching!!!!!!!!!!!.
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