Please accept my sincerest sympathy. I too have been through this, losing my husband on December 11, 1990 and my mother on December 27, 1990 - 16 days apart. BUT, we survive and I think that there is an inner protective device that kicks in when you really need it most. You will get through this. You must never sink into any feelings of guilt! Please remember this and reflect on good memories shared by both of you. Take it one day at a time, it does get better.
Posts by Gram
-
38
Someone in my family died this week - I am not doing well
by BonaFide inso i am sitting here crying, i am a pretty emotional guy.
i have been a witness all my life, so this is so hard.
first, this is my immediate family.
-
7
Would/should a JW sell their Xmas decorations/ornaments for $?
by Gram ini wonder how this would be viewed -- a jw or "new one" selling for $$ their xmas stuff at a garage sale or other.
would they be wrong in profiting financially and/or propogating the celebration of christmas?
donating to a thrift store?
-
Gram
I wonder how this would be viewed -- a JW or "new one" selling for $$ their Xmas stuff at a garage sale or other. Would they be wrong in profiting financially and/or propogating the celebration of Christmas? Donating to a thrift store? If so, what thrift store could they donate to? Many are religious, etc.
Any thoughts?
-
52
I am starting a new video series: Ex-Gilead Missionary
by Awakened at Gilead ini have been debating on how best to get the word out about jws and the wts... i have thought about blogs... but i just can't get myself to create the blog... and my youtube videos that i colaborated on with v have been successful on youtube... i have received many comments, and some inquiries from active jws based on the video.
.
i have created an introductory video that will give some background and you can see my style... i am also looking for constructive feedback... at the moment i am using windows movie maker, so the graphics are pretty cruddy, i apologize... if you know of a cheap or free movie editor that would be great.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gtdmkgfxml4.
-
Gram
You come across as VERY sincere, not angry, not raving. Also you had great eye contact. I like the beard!
-
22
Kingdom Hall Interiors
by TheMan inso i drove by my old kingdom hall the other day and noticed that it had a for sale sign in front of it.
this came as no surprise to me, as i knew that they recently won approval to build a new kingdom hall in a neighboring town.
(caused a bit of a stir in town - but that's a different story).
-
Gram
Did you notice this KH has windows?
-
4
Cigarette Paper used in printing the "Green" Bible?
by Gram ini heard that the paper used in printing the green bible was cigarette paper!?!?
anyone else heard that?
i heard that because the paper was "cheap" and less expensive to purchase.
-
Gram
I heard that the paper used in printing the green bible was cigarette paper!?!? Anyone else heard that? I heard that because the paper was "cheap" and less expensive to purchase.
-
20
Could a congregationcelebrate christmas?
by badboy inas congregations can supposedly made up their own rules, ccould a congregation deceide to celebrate christmas?
-
Gram
Jaguar,
This photo is a classic and should be shared with others!
-
34
Did you SAVE money by using a hotel on the recommended lodging list?
by truthseeker ini haven't seen this question posted here before, but did any of you who stayed at one of the hotels on the society's recommended lodging list save money than if you attended a hotel not on the list?.
having seen a few of these lists, it seems the rates given are expensive..
-
Gram
I was a young single sister travelling alone, by bus, no car to the San Francisco DA back in the late 60's. I had flown into Sacramento from the East Coast to visit relatives, then they put me on a bus to San Francisco. The Society had made my reservations at the Civic Center Hotel -- no longer there. No elevator, air, etc.etc. BUT the worst part of it was a shared bathroom down the hall with all the other guests. The neighborhood looked very unsafe to me -- around the Civic Center and on Market Street. I returned to the check-in desk and promptly checked out. I hauled my suitcases down Market until I came to the Cable Car which took me up to the Sir Francis Drake. Fortunately, they had a room, not much more expensive than the other one and just 2 blocks to where the bus picked you up to take you to the assembly...also a much safer place to stay. I often wondered if they took into consideration on my rooming request form that I was female, age 19 and travelling alone. It never made sense to me.
-
25
Blondie's Comments You Will Not Hear at the 11-02-08 WT Study (PURE LANG)
by blondie incomments you will not hear at the 11-2-08 wt study (august 15, 2008, pages 21-25) (pure language).
are you speaking the "pure language" fluently?
speaking the pure language fluently .
-
Gram
Regarding Paragraph 10 ...imitate or mimic ...pronounciation or speech patterns ...
How about all the overbearing and pompous clones that imitate and mimic the most fluent speaker? They sound "full of themselves", look down at others, speak with "authority" ... even to the point of imitating their mannerisms, etc. It is usually the younger ones aspiring for theocratic advancement within the Cong. Anyone else notice this?
(I found it sickening.)
-
12
Hammond Organ Appreciation Thread
by FlyingHighNow inno one aced the hammond organ like booker t and the mg's:.
time is tight (if someone can find a better sound quality of the original, please post).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pqpfjq5e0bs.
-
Gram
It was (and still is) the Hammond B 3. Simply the best! Jazz and Blues. Nothing can quite match it.
-
8
An interesting conversation with a car group of dubbers today
by ldrnomo inthey were going to sbux i stopped to talk and told them my mom was dying of cancer.
they said they were sorry to here that and i said, tongue in cheek, i was delighted because she would have been destroyed by jehvoah anyway and that would have been a lot more painful and frightening way to go and those dufuses agreed with me.
-
Gram
I am sorry to hear about your mother. My mother died of ovarian cancer almost 20 years ago. After her memorial service, there were many comments that I felt were outrageous or out of line. It is good you "stopped them in their boots" by your comment. Stay strong!