My reinstatement process was considerably less painful, I must admit.
I was DF'd in the beginning of the December, starting attending meetings again at the end of January and reinstated at the end of April.
I wrote a letter to the JC requesting reinstatement and a meeting was arranged for the following week. I don't remember much about the meeting itself to be honest (it was 9 years ago) but I do remember that the elders were very nice to me. I had put all the points forward that I could think of in my letter, ie, lots of grovelling and stuff like that so they didn't have much to ask me other than to elaborate on the points I had made in my letter.
I wasn't asked to leave the room while they decided my fate, I was simply told halfway through the meeting (after about 15 minutes) that I would be reinstated at the next meeting. So from that I had concluded that unless I put my foot in it big time during the meeting itself, it had been a foregone conclusion that they would reinstate me.
Another weird thing was that after I was DF'd, one of the elders on my JC had moved congregations although he still lived locally. But at my meeting only the two remaining elders turned up so I didn't even have the 3 elders present.
After reinstatement I couldn't answer at meetings, take part in items or aux pioneer for 3 months, actually I think it was 6 months before I could aux pioneer. But other than that, the whole 'situation' was done and dusted, and it was never really mentioned again.
The reason I got off so lightly? Being an elders daughter, of course!
Edited by - home_and_dry on 4 February 2003 8:31:55