i wasn't sure i was ready for it, but i did it anyway...i put out a personal ad.
i've gotten a few responses, but nothing seems promising yet.
i get the feeling that internet dating is more about quantity than quality, but i think that's what i need right now.
Loneliness,
Dont wait, and yes do start talking to everyone, anywhere, anytime. If you see someone you like just go up and start talking to them, some of them will look at you weird, but SFW.
Do personals, do chat rooms, go to bars, go to the grocery store. Just get out and meet.
If your shy, have a drink or valium, and then go and talk to the ladies. They dont call it liquid courage for nothing.
Good luck.
DJ_Q
supposedly about the same time as the bethel visitor's dress code brochure, talks were being given in kh concerning women showing cleavage.. i don't know.
i haven't heard any of these talks myself, but my folks tell me they have.
they also told me about the talks given in other congregations (reported to them by their friends).. i guess some cos, pos, etc.
You are so gonna get this thread locked. But thanks for the laughs.
LOL
DJ_Q
supposedly about the same time as the bethel visitor's dress code brochure, talks were being given in kh concerning women showing cleavage.. i don't know.
i haven't heard any of these talks myself, but my folks tell me they have.
they also told me about the talks given in other congregations (reported to them by their friends).. i guess some cos, pos, etc.
Stumble. Yes, I nearly stumbled on several ocassions, and fell over some of the smaller children, while being subjected to a view of a sisters cleveage.
DJ_Q
supposedly about the same time as the bethel visitor's dress code brochure, talks were being given in kh concerning women showing cleavage.. i don't know.
i haven't heard any of these talks myself, but my folks tell me they have.
they also told me about the talks given in other congregations (reported to them by their friends).. i guess some cos, pos, etc.
No cleveage. One of the best things I remember about going to the meetings when I was young was trying to check out the sisters cleveage, and what style of bra they were wearing.
That sucks.
DJ_Q
http://online.wsj.com/article/sb121755649066303381.html?mod=hpp_us_whats_news
Wal-Mart, I hate WM. Everything that is wrong with the US can be summed up with the word(s) WAL-MART. Corporate greed, capitalism at its worst, and complete disregard for the people that work for it.
F*#%K WM.
DJ_Q
kids came home from their dads this morning and zach said, "mom, did you know your gas door and cap was off?
" so i sprinted downstairs and investigated....i had just over 1/2 tank and now over night i'm down around 1/8 tank...i'll report it to the management but i don't think the police will do anything since it's not over a certain amount lost.
my car doors were locked and i don't see damage on the outside.
That sucks, I live in Houston, and we have some of the lowest gases prices around, and we have started hearing of people stealing gas. Crazy, crazy.
DJ_Q
i have the type of personality that when people that i love ignore me, i don't allow it.
i'm relentless.
i go after them and make the relationship work, if i want them in my life, that is.
I just recognized your profile picture. That is way too cool. What book was that out of?
DJ_Q
i am serving in an appointed position.
if you read my previous posts you will see.
an old girlfriend is accusing me of "grinding" which is porneia according to the society, and a disfellowshipping offense.
Deny, deny, deny. If you can live with what happened and it isn't going to bother your conscience, then deny it. Don't breakdown, don't get angry, and don't start to feel guilty even if they tell you, that Jehovah knows. You know he does, but you also know just how far it went, and if all you did was what you wrote, then deny it.
If you grow a pair of nuts, then also tell them that your sexual preferences or acts are none of their business. They will argue that it is their job to keep the congregation morally clean, but it will be very hard to punish you for something that is only implied. In the end I guess they can do what they want, but then tell them that Jehovah knows what is in your heart.
Good luck, and don't be a wus.
DJ_Q
in reality, is it a good thing, in the long run?
should the purpose of a board to be to give the person needed help and then the person should just move on?.
does being on a discussion board like this mean that you aren't really getting on in your life?.
Very well put, Im a newbie and I am starting to feel the same way,
DJ_Q
i sure could use some group therapy, but would settle for drinking a beer over some good conversation.
are there any former, maybe not formers but df's, or just plain doubting jw's who would like to meet some time.
anywhere in houston works for me.. .
Wow, I am in La Porte, no lie. And I know Sugarland pretty good too.
