You think about these things a lot Terry, and though I rarely comment, I appreciate your thinking.
My own thoughts go along the lines like these:
Suppose we were given faux free will instead of real free will. Now even at present we have no way of knowing whether we have one or the other.
Suppose though, for the moment that we do.
Suppose that instead of this we were given faux free will and thought we had the real thing.
Suppose we were then told "Don't do this, else we'd die." but we in point of fact lacked the ability to actually do that which we might have imagined we might do such that we imagined we thought better of the whole thing and refrained, but in point of fact we were designed to racionate in this manner.
By these means we would if the story be true, be living forever congratulating ourselves on our wisdom and prudence in acting in our best long-term interests instead of being bit actors in this tragedy of human history.
Where's the "Love" in this?
I asked this once when I was still in of a young man who was intelligent enough to make the connections.
His response was "Well, Jehovah would know."
And I responded with a wry grin..."So it's all about him then is it?"