arko_n(ne there is nothing like like some kind of tragedy happening to bring out the real colors in people. Then and only then will you see the true person behind the watchtower persona. Are they truly uncaring people or does the care and concern show up and manifest itself in deed or words of real kindness or are they harsh, or uncaring, and show no concern for the feeling or lot in life of the individual who experienced the tragedy. You may find a few people who truly are caring in the borg but it has been my experience with our tragedy that they are very few and far inbetween.
hopefully love bombing her will help and letting her know you really care about her and show that you do hopefully will put a crack in the wall of her belief in the lies of the watchtower.