I'd be interested in the experiences of others. Clearly, being raised a JW during your developmental years must make it harder.
You said it Janice, and please understand that with a new poster claiming to have gone to expensive name institutions of higher Ed. who can't spell simple words all sorts of flags went up in my mind.
It's not what you said so much as what or who you claimed to be as opposed to the way you came across in your writing.
But nobody's perfect. And yes, I agree with you that it's hard for a young witness going through early development, especially teens. It was for me and I know others who grew up with me in the same KHs that had a hard time with all the restrictions and the extra duties imposed on publishers to pioneer and to always be doing more for the "Organization".