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  UNCONDITIONAL LOVE? DID YOU EVER RECIEVE IT IN THE BORGORG? DO YOU HAVE IT IN YOUR LIFE NOW?

  by freewilly01 in

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  i always felt the lack of it in my life in the borgorg did you?.

  what does unconditional love mean to you?.

  how important is it to you?.

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  creativhoney

  seems to be the way.. when i was 'in' their love was 'unconditional' they would have done anything for me. - - but thats a contradiction isnt it.

  I love my kids, but if they committed murder would I love them the same.. or if they became a heroin addict would i lend them money or would it be based on what i know they would spend it on.

  we all have our own conditions. - I did have a lot of love from my family, we were very social and my mum and I were like friends we did a lot together, and I really miss that, I miss that she pleases my step father over us.. - I see that as a sign of weakness that she could never be on her own, he was the third marriage, and I'm glad I didnt just go out with the first person who would have me so I wouldnt be alone.. because I'm still here 18 months of single and Im not desperate now. - but yea it was all conditional on me staying in. - seriously though, i wonder if it doesnt tear her up? she joined because our eldest brother died, and it was the hope of being reunited.. but she drops her living kids along the way? insane!
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  I'm pretty much convinced now that the so-called "Apostates" are true believers

  by gubberningbody in

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  or were.

  i suspect the same enthusiasm which drives the zealous adherent is the same fire which fuels his/her engine to leave..

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  creativhoney

  I don't think anything is that black or white.
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  UNCONDITIONAL LOVE? DID YOU EVER RECIEVE IT IN THE BORGORG? DO YOU HAVE IT IN YOUR LIFE NOW?

  by freewilly01 in

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  i always felt the lack of it in my life in the borgorg did you?.

  what does unconditional love mean to you?.

  how important is it to you?.

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  creativhoney

  I have found that conditional love is everywhere. the only unconditional love I see exists between my kids and me. - but one day that could change. - religion or not, people are always imposing conditions on their love, friends who have opinions, relatives. - everyone believes that others should behave a certain way, and judge others accordingly - we are all guilty of it. even when we all sit here and condemn our witness families for not loving us.

  I dont agree with it, even in the slightest, but upon observation we all seem to do it..
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  Is there a way of saying to my family....

  by wobble in

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  is there a way of saying tactfully to my superdub family that we do not want anniversary presents this year ?.

  our 39th is on saturday the 12th and my wife says that as the family only have the minimum to do with us since our fade she feels it is the height of hypocrisy to buy us presents.. she also does not like my super-smug sister (who does ?

  ) who will come to our place bearing gifts we do not want from persons who will not entertain our point of view.. i cannot think of away that is kind, to get out of this, heeelllpppppp !!!!!!!!!!.

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  creativhoney

  sounds like you are bitter over the beliefs not the presents.

  just take the presents, at least they are bringing them, I havent seen my mum for a year.
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  Lets welcome Grathbar!

  by asilentone in

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  grathbar just posted here few minutes ago, let us welcome grathbar!

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  whats this all about then
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  Number of memorial partakers given in July 2009 KM

  by Mickey mouse in

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  for the uk it was 275 (that they're willing to declare anyway).

  i don't know how that compares with last year.. how about in your country?.

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  God doesnt like the french.
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  The phrase "The Truth"

  by lepermessiah in

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  so, i am curious..... how many of you have a hard time getting that phrase out of your vocabulary?.

  i have been conscienciously trying not to use it at all, so now when i am in a conversation with a jw, its amazing how often they use that phrase.

  i look back and wonder "god, did i say that that often?

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  LunaFing, just what I said! its so condescending, and as you say, its said without thought.
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  QFR..Feb 15 2010. RE Shared Living Accommodation??

  by BluesBrother in

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  if this has been posted, then i missed it... .

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  and what if a christian runs a guest house? I know someone who does in spain. is that not inappropriate?
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  Tangerine Dream play the Devil's Music

  by HappyGuy in

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  i guess one of the things that i hold most against the senile octagenarians who run the wtbts and tell us things like "rock music is from satan" is how much music i either missed out on or felt guilty about listening to.

  i love music.

  everyone who knows me can tell when i am not listening to enough music.

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  if they want to clutch at straws, all music is t he devils music, as its part of the world and its satans world. sheesh. - or is there an acceptable level of satan-ness?
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  The phrase "The Truth"

  by lepermessiah in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so, i am curious..... how many of you have a hard time getting that phrase out of your vocabulary?.

  i have been conscienciously trying not to use it at all, so now when i am in a conversation with a jw, its amazing how often they use that phrase.

  i look back and wonder "god, did i say that that often?

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  creativhoney

  it annoys me because of its Brainwashing potential. the truth, you know its the truth, come back to the truth.