Eric,
The only thing I can advise you is to be honest. I know that you have been thinking about a divorce as long as I have known you - 4 plus years. She was a fun black hole, blah blah blah. You came on this board and felt sorry for yourself, and I bought in to try to help you. In the end, you were just trying to get a following. Some women went along with you down this road, and thought they could help you in their own way. You took advantage of that situation. They eventually gave up on you, as I did.
After all of our conversations, it became apparent that you are most concerned about how much money you will get from this divorce, and that your penis will be tickled to your hearts content.
Your wife has evidence of some of your infidelity. The itinerary to Kansas City is damning! That will hurt you in court. There is more available if she peruses your posts here. You are not even smart enough to put them in the private section here! My main suggestion to you is to man up, and be honest about where all the money is. She is lawyered up, and she will find out if you have been hiding money offshore. I know that she came into the marriage with significant funds, and you should not be ripping her off.
She worked hard to build your business, much harder than you, and should not be treated as just an employee as you have mentioned in past threads. Eric, man up and give her what she deserves, and go on about your life.
As for her having a JW lawyer, it really doesn't matter. You have "flucked" yourself.
Do not be a lying bastard! That would make me think less of you, and that is a real hard thing for you to do.
Try to stop feeling like a martyr. That shit gets old! You brought all of this upon yourself. I wish you all of the best in the future, if you can finally pull your head out of your ass. You were begging to get either DFed or DAed for years. You finallly accomplished it, and of course, felt sorry for yourself.
As for the majority of your employees being JW's, you should have thought of that years ago. Try to change the situation if it is not too late.
John