Thanks for posting this Barbara, and I'm so sorry Mary. 20 odd years ago when my son was 4 years old and he had his tonsils out, he couldn't stop bleeding and we had to take him back to the hospital. I was disfellowshiped at the time and not with my son's mother(who is a really nice lady). Anyway all the liason bros came out of the woodwork, giving support(making sure no blood was given) to my ex. So much pressure for her, so we held off for as long as we could, until the doctors said they couldn't stop the bleeding and he was definately going to die. Well I had nothing to lose, and they still weren't talking to me, even though they could see how distraught I was(constantly crying), so I said to give him the blood, and he was fine and he is as healthy as ever. Unfortunately he is a jw, but I'm trying to help him see how much of a cult it is, very slowly.
Etna