Great thoughts Undercover!
I totally agree with your assessment. I know of a few faders in my area that I want to make contact with.
As a very recent fader, I truly believe that the organization has taken several steps back in the last few years. (if thats possible, now that I recognize it was just a huge MYTH) To me, the lack of love is quite evident more and more, and there are fewer and fewer elders who are truly shepherds - most are just company men and enforcers who LOVE to play judge, jury, and executioner. If you think its a travesty and totally unjust, it doesnt matter - you can get the CO involved, write the Society, etc - you just get the party line to "obey the spirit appointed men" blah blah blah. Even JW's who keep their nose clean get burned out by the constant demands and guilt trips. So, they cancelled one meeting a week - now they STRONGLY recommend you use that for personal and family study sessions.
To me, I finally see it for what it is - a large bureaucratic and authoritarian organization......driven by stats and "sales" figures. It was never about the people - that was the hardest for me to finally accept. Once I did, a huge burden was lifted.
And I think more and more people are seeing it. Almost every week, my family is afraid to discuss with me "another incident" that happened to a friend or family member. Its a smothering, emotionally draining environment for the most part. A lot of people want to avoid the stigma of disassociating themselves or the family issues of disfellowshipping so they choose the fade route and hope to be left alone.
Then, the WTBS will be hammering "management" about where are the people are going!