Let's see, I'm middle-aged, but been married for 34 years, so I don't quite qualify as an expert.
But as the saying goes.....
"Never let school get in the way of a good education, nor marriage in the way of a good relationship."
Okay, I just made that up. But has your man experienced somthing bad in his life, perhaps his parents having problems? And is afraid to commit to anything deeper?
Time has a way of working these things out. Things can happen naturally as time goes on...or not at all.
So what is Ann Launders 'dissed' saying? Give it some more time Magwitch