Thank you all.
She is doing better today, they got her up out of bed for a few minutes, and she is much more lucid than she was a couple of days ago. Hospitals and drugs aggrevate her dementia, which doesn't help. I'm managing to destress a bit today.
FYI, Mom is 91. As children of the depression (and having never been sucked in by a whacky religion) she and Dad managed their money very well. We're in good shape to pay for whatever we need, which helps a lot.