LHG, Truthlover and Blondie
Your stories sound a lot like mine. I was baptized in 1974. I had just graduated from college, only to discover that nobody wanted somebody with a degree in English. So I became a JW. The congregation was pleasant and mostly decent people.
There were a few oddballs and bad apples. One elder was removed for beating his wife. One was verbally abusive too everybody around him (except the circuit overseer), I don't know how he kept his position.
In 1982, against the counsel from the elders I went back to school for a year and studied accounting. One of the best decisions I ever made. We stopped going to meetings in 1987, and disassociated ourselves a year later.