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  • expatbrit
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    Why are there more sisters than brothers?

    by expatbrit in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    it is generally acknowledged, and confirmed by experience, that there is a significant gender imbalance in the organisation.. there are considerably more sisters than there are brothers.

    that's great for the brothers, because a lot of the poor jw lasses get so desperate that even the most dorky of brothers can take his pick.. but why is there this imbalance?.

    it's true that birth rates show slightly more females being born than males (mother nature's way of safeguarding the future?

    1. Tina
    2. mommy
    3. hippikon
  • jelly
    jelly
    Perhaps it has something to do with the way women's social networks works. Conversions are almost never 'cold' (as in JW door-to-door work), but they use already existing social networks (family, friends, workmates).

    That’s actually a very good point JanH, I have often wondered why the male / female ratio is so unbalanced. I don’t know how the other halls were but I know in mine all the sisters were brainwashed to believe that all ‘worldly men’ beat and cheated on their wives. The consequence of this belief was that sisters were afraid to leave the truth because they were just sure it would lead to an abusive relationship. So more sisters stayed in the organization while brothers were more likely to leave. There probably are a multitude of reasons for the imbalance with different levels of effect.

    Larc, Tina, JanH I don’t believe Mommy does not want JanH to post, what she wants is to not be insulted. JanH made a good point in his paragraph but you had to be willing to look past the hostility to read it. I think many former JW’S could benefit from a class in communication, basically the understanding that every time a message is conveyed the context it’s conveyed in will either add or detract from the argument. So if you want to reason with people you must pay attention to your words, on the other hand if you want to ridicule people, for whatever reason, you argument will always be diminished.

    Jelly

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  • jelly
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    Hang-ups about sex

    by jelly in
    1. social
    2. relationships

    i have not really thought this out yet but i was thinking after reading another post.

    what exactly did jesus say about sex?.

    the only things i can remember about jesus was that he revealed his messiahship to a woment that had multiple husbans (lovers), for married men to not lust after other women, and in his linage was a former prostitute.. .

    1. freddi
    2. Introspection
    3. chris_mj_gum18
  • jelly
    jelly

    Carmel,
    I personally am not sure about the apostle paul. Thats why I wanted to limit the discussion to what Jesus said in the Gospels. Sometimes I have trouble harmonizing what paul said with the actions of jesus. I am not sure if this is due to:

    Not understanding what paul meant (due to lack of context)
    The writings of paul being perverted by early church
    Or maybe Paul was never inspired

    Jelly

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  • LDH
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    THE TEST WAS POSITIVE

    by LDH in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    i am preggers.. just left the doctor's office and my hubby's office.

    i dropped the little plastic thing-a-ma-jig off, and he said, "what's this?

    are you pregnant?!?!?!?".

    1. waiting
    2. LDH
    3. LDH
  • jelly
    jelly

    Congrats Lisa life and motherhood is a beutiful thing.

    Jelly

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  • uncle_onion
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    Did Christ exist?

    by uncle_onion in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    jesus christ is the main feature of christianity.

    what proof is there of him existing?

    we touched on this subject on the the last thread that i started, but i would appreciate in depth veiw points and "evidence" please.

    1. Welshman
    2. JAVA
    3. wasasister
  • jelly
    jelly
    can satisfy your desire to practice this popular American pastime of being constantly offended by everyone and everything

    As an American (or 'merican' as you would say) I can assure you I and the vast majority of people I know do not fit your particular prejudice JanH. As a matter of fact I am not even offended by you ignorance expressed in the above quote, when people can only attack through generalizations it just shows they have no real argument.

    I think what newlight2 was trying to say is that maybe we should be respectful of each other. I know I personally do not have a fragile little ego that breaks up when I encounter a differing view point but I do expect the person to respect me, I think Malcom X said it best when he said he refused to have any respect for someone that has no respect for him.

    By the way glib little justifications do not excuse people from acting with some class and tact.

    Jelly (Ugly merican class – yeehaawww)

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  • Zechariah
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    God and Israel survey

    by Zechariah in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    i think it would be interesting to know whether or not you believe that the jews recovery of their homeland (israel) in the 20th century had anything to do with god?

    qualify your answer if you care to.. zechariah

    1. trevor
    2. logical
    3. Zechariah
  • jelly
    jelly

    JanH

    The entire middle east is an 'aparthied state' in a sense that they all want only thier little group to control everything. Isreal is no worse are better than the rest of them. The reason the US deals with Isreal is that they tend to be more stable than the rest of the region.

    Jelly

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