The token black guy still cracks me up when I see one of these. Can a club get anymore exclusive? No Mexicans, no Asians, no islanders, no women. I bet he has nightmares of Adam Sandler standing over him, yelling, "They're all gonna laugh at you!"
FreeAtLast1914
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Photo of GB 2006
by Titus inplease, compare this photo with the gb photo in the book "bear thorough witness".
gb2006.
isn't that the same photo?.
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Odd CO talk...ever hear anything like this?
by sir82 inhad our co visit last month.
normally the guy has all the charisma and charm of ben stein from "ferris buhler's day off", but he managed to give a talk that was actually coherent one night.. here is the rough outline:.
the theme was about the difference between "justice", "mercy", and "undeserved kindness".. situation 1: adam and eve sinned.
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FreeAtLast1914
I think it's just another feeble attempt to prop up a baseless year and stretch it a little longer while they figure out how to re-tie it all together after the debacle of 1995 and subsequent changes to the "generation".
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Tool against private questions by JC?
by TheOldHippie inbeing a bit slow, i just finished reading the january 22 "awake!
", and back-translating from "polish" into poor english, on page 9 is the article "a reasonable view on the peace of your private life" or something like that (as said, back-translated ....).
ok, on page 12, second paragraph left column under the sub-heading "a reasonable view", first couple of lines, it is stated: "the creator has the right to know all our private affairs, but people have not.
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FreeAtLast1914
Crinkle's right. A few well-timed scriptures and accompanying questions directed at them will stun them into baffled silence. You have to remember, elders generally only understand the Bible as it has been explained to them by the WT. When you turn the tables and use that book on them, they become embarrassed and whimper away with an empty expression pasted on their foreheads that screams, "What the heck just happened? Did I just get spanked?"
It's a pretty cool thing to witness in first person.
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Why Would Someone Like me Leave the "Truth"? Part 5 (Final Installment)
by cantleave inthis is a direct continuation od part iv.................................... you can imagine the reaction of the people who saw me storm out of the hall but what happened in the elders meeting after i left was even funnier.
mike told me that there was stunned silence for about a minute.
slimeball said well take that as his stepping down!.
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FreeAtLast1914
CantLeave, excellent story. The part about your kid talking about the Halloween candy at the Hall had me rolling. But I didn't catch your current status. You resigned from the BOE, but are you still going for appearances?
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New here-question about calls from the elders
by hoggieman ini have been looking around here for a while but this is my first post.
my wife and i have been fading not so smoothly.
i pretty much know this is not the truth but am still undecided how i feel on various issues and i am still sorting them out.
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FreeAtLast1914
If you aren't sure where you stand regarding your future in the religion, your first mistake was confiding in anyone who is an active JW, let alone two of them. JWs are horrible at keeping secrets, afraid God will kill them for it.
So to diffuse the situation, tell your uncle that you really don't have doubts per se (that you were misunderstood by your family members), you just have questions and are ernestly seeking answers to them through WT-approved pubs. He'll "encourage" you to go back to meetings (if you've stopped) whereby you can either go and keep quiet while you get things straight in your head, or pull the Conscience card on them and tell them you know where the KH is and you'll be there when you can.
All that may work for awhile. Eventually, you'll either have to step up your fading or tell them all to back off.
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What Its Like To Be A Gay Ex JW....
by str8?so is spaghetti..until you heat it up ini guess its time to throw my little story out there.
i keep reading everyones stories and thinking how brave you have all been, coming out of the organisation and facing all the repercussions of doing so.. .
i only last august disassociated myself.
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FreeAtLast1914
str8, it was a fascinating read. Full disclosure: I'm not gay, not even a little bit. But even as a JW I never saw the value in tormenting those who are. During my three decades of slavery service, I spotted several gay brothers in hiding. You could just tell they were miserably fighting their natural urges. And I heard the jokes and slants against them from the R&F. I knew they were gay. But even though I don't understand the attraction, I never passed judgment.
Now, out of the cult, I'm glad I never harbored animosity against them. In fact, while inside I was a vocal proponent of lesbians (teasing that I myself was one in a man's body), usually getting a few strange looks but it was honestly how I felt.
I think that whatever a person does, it is he that has to live it. No one else. Have a happy life, dude. Glad you're out!
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Pioneer Removal
by IMHO inwho's been removed from pioneering, and what was the reason given, and was it true?.
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FreeAtLast1914
They threatened to remove me back in the day, but never went through with it. The requirement was 90hrs, I generally could only get 70-75. That was a huge no-no. I ended up leaving the area before they had to "take action."
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FreeAtLast1914
Spiritual means that you let the Good Book speak for itself, without the need for a human interpreter (religion) to lead you astray. That way, if you get it wrong, you have only yourself to blame. Spiritual also means that you feel a personal connection with a Higher Power that you endeavor to please throughout your life, rather than worrying about the rules of an institution that claims to speak for that Higher Power.
If you believe the Bible, when you someday meet the Big Guy in the Sky on Judgment Day, there won't be anyone there to hold your hand. So why let them (religion) hold your hand on the way there?
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Please Join in Celebration! My DFed brother is coming to dinner!!!
by Open mind inwe're killing the fattened young bull and having osso bucco (spell?
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i'm going to the airport right now to pick up my long-time dfed, over 20-years shunned, gay older brother!.
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FreeAtLast1914
OM, you're doing what many of us have done, righting past wrongs. My hat's off to you!
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CONVENTION PHOTO !!
by elder-schmelder ini found this picture on facebook.. but i wanted to ask everyone a question.
how many people here remember a moment in their young adult life at the conventions like this?.
[picture removed - it's unclear if this is publicly available or copied without permission - simon].
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FreeAtLast1914
NEJ, I also remember a gap, but in my case it was more noticeable in the 30-40 age group rather than the 20-30. Actually, I could see an overall gap in the 20-40 range. This particular range is pivotal for born-ins. It is where they are exposed to the world around them on their own terms. They get married and start a family in their 20s, and the connection between them and their parents forms a glue that keeps them around even when they're mentally missing. Once they reach their 30s, issues that have troubled them for many years begin to affect them and they look into them. This is the beginning of the end. The only reason it takes a few years from this period is the familial ties that are used as a threat slowing their exit, but not completely stopping it.