Some elders and/or their wives are bonified control freaks. They want to dictate every small detail of your life and if you deviate even in the slightest they go ballistic.
Its happened to me and to my family with devastating results.
has anyone else experienced the wrath of elders and ex-elders on innocent rank-and-file dubs?
what are these power hungry men and their wives so mad about?
where is the love we were promised when those witnesses spent hours indoctrinating us about the spiritual paradise of witnesses we would be joining?
Some elders and/or their wives are bonified control freaks. They want to dictate every small detail of your life and if you deviate even in the slightest they go ballistic.
Its happened to me and to my family with devastating results.
i got one from my mother.
when the hell did they start doing this???.
i'm guessing this is the way they're going to do it eventually.
have lurked here for many, many years.
female, latina, middle-aged, born-in, 3rd generation jw, northeast usa.
my fate is to continue to play the game 'till death do us part because the very strong and tangled web of friends, family, business, etc.
I sometimes wonder how many of us there are who know it is bs but are stuck in for family.
btw welcome to the forum
so here we are, almost a year into the "new" congregation donation arrangement.
and its beginning, as was predicted, to fail miserably, and to have direct negative consequences on the poor sheep.. let me give you a little experience, directly from our congregation of about 80 publishers.
back in may, after reading the letter about the "new" arrangement, the elder body decided to "donate" the extra funds on hand to wt, as directed.
how does the fds and mr. lett think of you?.
you are a number on their balance sheet!.
from mr. lett's video about 'oneness' on jw.tv:.
I think the statement about making deposits is a subliminal message that jws are not donating enough to the coffers.
i need some advice.
actually my friend needs some advice.
a few years ago i moved about 50 km (30 miles) away from the nearest congo and have since tried to live a normal life.
If there are two elders involved it is most likely an investigation committee. If he hasn't shown his face for sometime perhaps they are going on gossip of wrongdoing.
I also know an elder who looks at the inactive cards and hunts the people down to get them to either come back or DA themselves. It looks better when the circuit overseer comes around if the cards are all in order.
I would tell your friend to not meet with them. Sounds like they are on a witch hunt.
i've been lurking here for a while now, and i guess you could call me a fader.
i don't have hate in my heart for the organization that i spent most of my life in, but i have had an awakening.
luckily, so has my wife, and that way i don't feel so alone.
i've been invited to go to central america for a week on a global village project.
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are there any possible issues that the congregation might have with me doing this?.
Vidiot:
The internal conflict will be readily apparent on their face (and hugely satisfying to watch), and if it all goes down in front of a group of people, so much the better.
I might just do that.
http://www.adelaidenow.com.au/news/south-australia/sa-court-told-brett-darren-mardon-poisoned-the-milk-of-jehovahs-witness-elder-after-he-was-excommunicated-from-the-faith/story-fni6uo1m-1227238876533.
a disgruntled jehovahs witness was caught on camera poisoning his elders milk with weed killer after being excommunicated over an extramarital affair, a court has heard.. .
for the first time, the advertiser can name and show brett darren mardon, who is standing trial accused of attempting to put three lives at risk the elder, his wife and their young child.. he has denied injecting milk, apple juice and other liquids in the refrigerator of ben anthanysz with glyphosate a weed killer that causes health problems if consumed in large quantities.. mardon has maintained his innocence of the charges despite being recorded by a cctv camera mounted in the anthanyszs kitchen.. opening the trial, prosecutor nick healy said mardons actions were a vengeful response to his church peers ignoring his existence, as required by their faith.. he said mr anthanysz had been part of a three-person jehovahs witness committee that censured mardon for having sex with someone while married.. .
glyphosate the active ingredient of round up. I thought it was safe. It is sprayed on 50% of the food we eat.