Some people get their jollies by making people grovel.
Some elders are like this. That’s why they are elders.
reading about jw.org rules changes these days gives me a sad observation.. everything what "is" today, can be gone tomorrow.. that makes it all worthless.
you were an elder, searching for evidence, and proof to df a person.
because he or she was not humble enough.
Some people get their jollies by making people grovel.
Some elders are like this. That’s why they are elders.
https://youtu.be/np05twylal8?si=wjcdevvpxmlwxb2p.
shame is an ancient form of control.
shame is the mechanism used to control behaviour.
I wonder if the elder that ADMITTED to watching the porn was the secretary or school overseer of the congregation?
None of the elders want those positions as they require a lot of work.
It looked like there were only 4 elders on the body so they probably wanted to keep the honest one if he was carrying a lot of the work load. Maybe snitch elder can take over those responsibilities once they kick the other guy to he curb.
Why didn’t they ask the elder if he jerked off while he was watching the porn? That would have brought a whole new dynamic to the situation as that becomes a judicial matter and he could be disfellowshipped.
The elder blamed his wife for not putting out enough causing him to watch porn. The other elders seemed to think that was ok reasoning. If in doubt blame a woman!
https://youtu.be/np05twylal8?si=wjcdevvpxmlwxb2p.
shame is an ancient form of control.
shame is the mechanism used to control behaviour.
It takes one to know one.
How do the governing body make all those porn rules if they haven’t watched it themselves?
co training video: link to ex-jw reddit thread discussion.
today is the first time i was made aware of this actual elder body video.
it's training for how a co should handle elder's whose children decide to pursue further education.
The watchtower organization is actively telling young ones to get into a trade. The slave trade.
They have buildings to renovate, build and flip.
co training video: link to ex-jw reddit thread discussion.
today is the first time i was made aware of this actual elder body video.
it's training for how a co should handle elder's whose children decide to pursue further education.
Jan
I would say that a person indoctrinated in a university for 4 years is as easily manipulated by others as a high school dropout.
a very certain distinctive of jws is how they refer to themselves.
"one of jehovah's witnesses".
it's one of those coded jargon thingies.
Can’t say you are a member of the Jehovahs witnesses as that would imply an agency and could result in financial harms for the leadership of the Watchtower Corporation.
read this relevant message on reddit, about current elders.. https://www.reddit.com/r/exjw/comments/1eb0ees/the_changes_are_affecting_elders_the_hardest_in/.
spot on, isn't it?.
gorby.
One thing that elders are not aware of, and should be is personal civil and criminal liability for some of the harms that they do.
Laws are broken and damages done in the name of “following direction”.
A bold person needs to ask these questions to elders:
What would you do if you recieve a criminal record or a jail term for not reporting csa or threats of self harm? Will you lose your job?
What would you do if you are sued for wrongful death resulting from a decision you made in a jc? What will your wife and family think if you lose your house and your wages garnished? Does the congregation offer you liability insurance in case of a lawsuit?
Elders are being played by the watchtower corporation. They are manipulated into thinking they are doing gods work by being hatchet men for the borg.
Watchtower won’t have their back.
co training video: link to ex-jw reddit thread discussion.
today is the first time i was made aware of this actual elder body video.
it's training for how a co should handle elder's whose children decide to pursue further education.
I’m amazed at what little reward people need to be duped into working for free.
The title of elder and keeping that title dictates entire families lives, their economic future, their children and grandchildrens future.
It isn’t even a piece of paper that you can hang on your wall.
co training video: link to ex-jw reddit thread discussion.
today is the first time i was made aware of this actual elder body video.
it's training for how a co should handle elder's whose children decide to pursue further education.
Humans naturally don’t like other humans appearing to succeed.
They somehow feel threatened and want to drag you down to their level of mediocrity
co training video: link to ex-jw reddit thread discussion.
today is the first time i was made aware of this actual elder body video.
it's training for how a co should handle elder's whose children decide to pursue further education.
LHG
I never gave it much thought that the elders might discourage college just to retain cheap indentured jw servants
I wouldn’t put it past them