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  Wife is Awake

  by freemindfade in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  following the news of stuckinarut2, over the past few months my wife has completely mentally woken up.

  i've been meaning to post but haven't had the time.

  i saw stuckins post and i figured i'd add my news too.

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  Lostwun

  I'm so happy for you FMF. Great news! :)
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  How to reply when someone asks about your spiritual health

  by RodrigoGuerreiro in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  first of all, sorry if i cannot correctly express the original expression used in my native language to ask for the "spiritual condition".. a few years ago some member of the family asks my wife directly how is her "spiritual health" (for me it's one of the many strange vocabulary used by jw like "the slave says...").

  she was catched by surprise with the direct question and says that everything is ok... and luckily someone call them for lunch.. my question is: do you have any good answers for that question?

  you can be ironic/use some humor because the question is a little bit anecdotical .

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  Lostwun

  Onager I couldn't stop laughing at your post. 😂😂😂 too funny
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  Just curious - is apostasy grounds for divorce?

  by LifesNotOver in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i know only adultery is supposed to be grounds for "scriptural" divorce.

  i'm a wicked apostate in their eyes, but my believing husband and i still can't get a divorce that would allow him to remarry.

  we currently are separated - i have left him.

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  Lostwun

  Same ordeal i was put through, except my husband did cheat and only got publicly reproved and not disfellowshipped. I got my "scriptural grounds" but its still a Crooked system.
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  update on my divorce situation

  by depressed in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i'm shocked!

  if you remember my experience, in a nutshell, basically my ex-bethelite ex pioneer husband cheated on me with an older "worldly woman" from his job and left me suddenly.

  i had no idea that we had trouble with our marriage, however, when i discovered the love letters from the other woman, he moved out, and a week after that, i received divorce papers.

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  Lostwun

  Damn, I remember reading this when i was still together with my husband thinking what a f*cked up type of situation this was for her to go through. I felt so sorry reading her story. Now I'm living her story, her nightmare minus the excessive emails being sent in rage. I am guilty of sending at least one email to his parents and elders with alot of evidence i was hoping would get his ass disfellowshipped, but at the end of the day it did nothing but only satisfied my wanting revenge to hurt him the way he hurt me yet I still hurt and the verdict of public reproof still stands.

  Seeing my soon to be ex husband get off the hook so easily for all the damage he caused hurts like hell but i appreciate reading all the timely advice given to the original poster because it's helping me to try to put things into perspective and learn to let the anger go for my own wellbeing and move on and be thankful for this blessing in disguise. Still the pain of betrayal is a strong thing to let go of so easily.

  Depressed, I pray that you are in a better state now then when you written this post 9 years ago.

  Take care.
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  RC Was Worse Than I thought...

  by JW_Rogue in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i was visiting with my family and it seems the rc was worse than i thought.

  now they all seem to think that "we are so close to the end" and that the "brothers are really preparing us for the gt".

  some even saying that soon our message will change to a judgement message for mankind and talking about how we need to improve "everything we do".

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  Lostwun

  GB= Decepticons!
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  Any here who didn't rebel as a teenager and were a goody two shoes instead?

  by purrpurr in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  when i was a teenager in the borg i was a dyed in the wool, goody two shoes, squeaky clean,"spiritual " sister.

  alot of my peers around me were rebelling and going off the rails but not me.

  i was constantly praised for this and even felt a little smug about it ha!.

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  Lostwun

  I was very much the goody goody elders daughter growing up almost so much that i resented the title. I felt like i never fitted in with my jw friends because of it.
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  Just wondering who on this board has a spouse that is fully in and your awake?

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i am just curious who on this board is in the same situation has i am?

  a spouse that is fully brain doogled in and you are awake to ttatt.. without going into serious detail and no names are given.

  i would like to possible talk with one of you all, it's just so helpful to communicate with someone in the same situation as me.. i am located in the southwest united states..

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  Lostwun

  Gttm I understand your situation well. Pm me if you ever need to talk privately.

  My hubby is semi-awake but still not fully out as family pressure tends to keep him somewhat on a leash to their demands. He's been skipping out on meetings but once his parents come back soon from their missionary work, im afraid he is going to cave and start attending again because of pressure from his dad. Maybe he'll surprise me but I doubt it. We'll see....

  just want you to know that I can fully relate to your ongoing struggle. Hang in there man.

  Lost-wun
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  Got a call, my dad is in hospice...

  by dubstepped in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  our last conversation was him yelling at me because i "loved the gays".

  translation, i pointed out that nobody chooses their sexuality.

  i've been shunned since daing last september, and really for a year or so after visiting my df'ed brother.

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  Lostwun

  I hurt for you dub. I'm sorry to hear about your fathers passing. I don't fully know your family dynamics but allow yourself to grieve in your own way. I'm sorry that once again your remaining family have pushed you away. I do hope you can heal from this and move forward which you seem to be doing already.

  In the words of one of my favorite artist Lauryn Hill : "Forgive them Father for They Know not What They Do."

  Forgive them for their ways because unfortunately they are captives of WT ideology.

  Sending Big hugs your way MAN! Enjoy your trip this weekend enjoy the nature and clear your head.

  Lost-wun
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  Circuit Overseer Coming For Lunch – Everything Has to be Perfect

  by SAHS in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we have the circuit overseer’s visit this week, and my folks are having him and his wife over for lunch today.

  of course, i’m making it a point of hightailing it out of there to have my lunch elsewhere.

  when my mom asks me “why don’t you stay and meet him,” i just say, “well, he’s just a man like everybody else.” she says, “well, of course.

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  Lostwun

  OUTLAW- There motto is "DO AS I SAY NOT AS I DO!

  Hypocrisy at its finest.
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  Circuit Overseer Coming For Lunch – Everything Has to be Perfect

  by SAHS in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we have the circuit overseer’s visit this week, and my folks are having him and his wife over for lunch today.

  of course, i’m making it a point of hightailing it out of there to have my lunch elsewhere.

  when my mom asks me “why don’t you stay and meet him,” i just say, “well, he’s just a man like everybody else.” she says, “well, of course.

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  Lostwun

  Oh yea, I remember how everyone in my old congregation used to be grumpy as hell every meeting yet when it was CO visit time the same people would act all chipper and joyful out of the blue. I found it funny too how the same people and elders who would never speak to you any other time would suddenly come out of the woodworks and start speaking like normal and acting all happy while the CO was around.

  Its amazing how i saw through the fakeness of the whole visit even before learning the ttatt.

  ALL FOR SHOW!