if people would heed christ words, and God words, and pay attention then the sorrow will decrease and joyful times will increase......
Go ahead and knock on the doors of the widows, widowers, mothers, fathers, children, uncles, aunts, and dear friends of those who lost loved ones on 9/11 and see how your message of God, and "Get Over it" works out.
I sincerly believe your preaching strategy needs work. If you're trying to bring comfort you're lacking in a big way buddy. Temper your words with tact.