someone talk me out of going to jail.. i just found out an ms called my sister and verbally abused her.
told her she was 'unspiritual and inactive and he doesn't have to listen to her'.......he then continued with what a 'crappy mother she is' etc.. i'm in a blind rage.
Thanks gang. Unfortunately......I lost it with him on the phone. A total smart ass punk. Those "brothers" all know me....... they are likely posting guards and now looking for a way to DF me.....
I can't believe the things he said to my sister. I can't believe they are allowed to talk this way. After all this time.....and 17 years as a servant......I'm still shocked to see that they can do this and get away with it......
someone talk me out of going to jail.. i just found out an ms called my sister and verbally abused her.
told her she was 'unspiritual and inactive and he doesn't have to listen to her'.......he then continued with what a 'crappy mother she is' etc.. i'm in a blind rage.
I just got him on the phone an unloaded .....he was at the KH....I'm sure they posted guards.... they all know I will march in there
someone talk me out of going to jail.. i just found out an ms called my sister and verbally abused her.
told her she was 'unspiritual and inactive and he doesn't have to listen to her'.......he then continued with what a 'crappy mother she is' etc.. i'm in a blind rage.
Someone talk me out of going to jail.
I just found out an MS called my sister and verbally abused her. Told her she was 'unspiritual and inactive and he doesn't have to listen to her'.......he then continued with what a 'crappy mother she is' etc.
I'm in a blind rage
after being reinstated in 2008, i was finally appointed ms last night.. i am so excited now that i have a certain measure of 'power'.. ex-ms's/elders, what types of challenges come with this priviledge?.
what will be expected from me?.
I'm going to say you're drowing in crap.....
You can't be appointed to service privileges only 2 years after being reinstated.
I'm going to call liar.
i saw a jw girl i used to work with a few weeks back who was married for about 8 years and has 2 children , she was in a right state and told me her husband had just left her for a work collegue and said he no longer loved her !
within a month i see her again and she took him back within a wk of him going to live with this other woman , she told me she blamed herself for not having sex often enough !and they were working on their marriage !
why would you want someone who said they no longer loved you ?
There are a ton of 'sisters' that are just as bad as this guy.
But sisters go through HELL in the org. They wait and wait to marry some 'prince'.....read 'servant'....who is then just some dude that could ride around in a mini-van for 10 hours a month...... they marry him....... they start making babies. Keep in mind they rarely can support themselves since they didn't go to college.......so they start weighing out the 'benefits' of taking the loser back.....
...a lot of them take them back. Then cry and cry due to unhappiness.
Its truly a criminal situation.
i considered myself immune to ex jw stuff.
no amount of old watchtowers or anything would change me.
it was seeing treatment of others by elders and the bible itself, which woke me.
As an elder....it was a sister we had DF'd.....when I called her to tell her we were reinstating her the next night....she cried and said thank you....and said she was going to kill herself the next day
I woke up.
Disfellowshipping....something I NEVER agreed with....is what did it for me.
Next came the GROSS lack of love among JW's..... especially the elders and CO's.....some of them are just terrible/dysfunctional people .....
wendy cloete louwwe lost a sister in our congregation today, had severe depression and tried to take her own life.
sad thing is if the doctors stopped being petty and insisting on bloody and just gave her alternative blood volumiser sooner she might have been fine.
it took the elders hours to get her transferred to a new hospital.
Do you know what only makes this even sadder?????
Because she attempted suicide...she won't "qualify" for a memorial at the Kingdom Hall.......despite her stand on blood.
Yep.....she is a 'loser' in their eyes anyway.
It just gets sicker and sicker.
now that i am free from my bonds to an organization dictating to me what i can and cannot do (in bed included), i cannot stop.....i feel like an addict on coke or something, i have been with my bf for eight months now, and perhaps it is a combination of the newness of a sexual relationship with the release from my spiritual bonds, but....i feel like a cat in heat 24/7.
of course my bf is not complaining even though i see he is physically tired parts of the day that i actually leave him alone (to go to work or sleep after hours of lovemaking).
i wonder if anyone else has gone through similar experience.
Wow....I'm with AWildFlower......I didn't know you had such an age gap.......share :)
(I happen to be 40something.....and have had a couple of girlfriends in their late 20s......)
this is a really fascinating topic for me.....mainly because i'm single lol.
but what was it like to navigate through the waters of other people while getting into relationships?
did you wonder what to do about holidays?
Great feedback....thanks to all.
dgp.......you TOTALLY lost me.......can you explain?
Coffegirl,
Good for you. That you have not only found a nice man that is patient, but on going back to school and enjoying some hot sex :)
Like Kristina, I'm fascinated by what adjustments some may have had to make.....all feedback appreciated.....
what was your reputation?
were you viewed as "mature", "worldly", or "exemplary"?
?.
It sounds arrogant...but
..highly respected young elder.......all the way up to convention level, KM School, etc.
