Wow Sab! The irony in calling you a narcissist! How sad. At least you give them the respect of not talking about your view with them. Keep up the good work on your videos.
Posts by Hadit
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179So I just got called a narcissist
by sabastious inmy family knows that i post on this forum (they have a packet of print outs of topics i have started) and they know about my videos on youtube.. they have made a demand that i cease all internet communication with the apostate community and then they will have me back.. i have refused.. they say i am a narcissist because i am ignoring the feelings of my family because they are very hurt by the things i am doing on the internet and speaking out against the religion.. interesting since they had to search out my posts and videos to gather evidence of apostasy.. -sab.
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Suicide - My column on Freeminds
by Lady Lee inyesterday i spoke of my disfellow-shipping from the jehovahs witnesses.
i had been depressed for many years due to a lifetime of abuse.
as long as i could remember i thought of suicide as the ace up my sleeve; something to do when i thought i could not take it anymore.. after 15 years of marriage to a witness who was emotionally and sexually abusive the thoughts of suicide were on my mind almost constantly.
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Hadit
Excellent article Lady Lee! Thank you for sharing your story with us. Suicide is about stopping the pain rather than wanting to die. If people are able to see the difference then as you said they begin to see choices of how to go about stopping the pain and then are able to seek help. I'm so glad you found that one person who understood you and helped. It only takes one person to make a difference - I'm glad you found her! I remember reading in the book In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts the author stated that sometimes the difference in a person's life when it comes to addiction and/or suicide is one act of kindness either from a friend or a stranger. That made such an impression on me because we just never know how our actions or words can effect the entire life of another human being. Kindness is a powerful force!
I'm glad you got some closure with your ex. I'm sure when you were writing your article your thoughts were putting out a lot of energy - energy travels and apparently your ex was receptive to it - on the same channel as you. It took him a long time to be on the same wavelength but it goes to show we just never know what a person goes through to at least get to the point of understanding their part in someone's pain. Life has a way of coming full circle!
Take care and keep up the good work with your articles!
Hadit
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Had_It
by brotherdan ini needed some help tonight, and you guys really came through.
i got a call from hadit, who is actually "had it".
i thought she was a cool israelli!
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Hadit
OMG! Thanks everyone! Now I'm all teary eyed! You guys are all so sweet. It feels soooo wonderful to be able to help!
I love that song - thank you Caliber! Hi to 3Mozzies in Australia too! Serenity, V665 and Lady Lee too!
Love you all! Gotta sign off for now or I'll get caught on this site!
Sweet dreams all!
Had It
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Had_It
by brotherdan ini needed some help tonight, and you guys really came through.
i got a call from hadit, who is actually "had it".
i thought she was a cool israelli!
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Hadit
LOL!! Does EFFFF mean what I think it does? Oh my Brotherdan!!
Thanks guys! Us girls can be smart too - much to the chagrin of the WTS!
Lady Lee - yes, it explains why they treat people the way they do and have no qualms about ruining families!
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Had_It
by brotherdan ini needed some help tonight, and you guys really came through.
i got a call from hadit, who is actually "had it".
i thought she was a cool israelli!
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Hadit
While I THOUGHT I didn't agree with her, she is so smart and made so much sense to me with how she views things.
Okay bro - be straight with me - do my posts sound dumb? Glad I was able to clear it up by talking to you! See - good thing you picked up the phone otherwise who knows how long you would think I was dumb!
Some of them don't know what love is!! Too bad for them. They miss out!
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Had_It
by brotherdan ini needed some help tonight, and you guys really came through.
i got a call from hadit, who is actually "had it".
i thought she was a cool israelli!
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Hadit
Thanks Dan – you are too kind and made me blush! I’m so glad we talked and that I was able to help. I loved that you thought I was from Israel “Hadeet.” I’m glad that we were able to have a laugh during such a stressful time. Edit to add: Not that Israeli is funny or anything just that my name reflects Had it - as in I've had it with the religion!
Dan is sweet, easygoing and intelligent. He figured out I was Canadian within one sentence and I didn’t say eh!
You take good care – I’m sending you hugs and we’ll talk soon. Yay to new friends!
Hadit
(Thanks V665!)
I feel loved you guys! Love back
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Minimus Is Wonderful!!!
by minimus ini figured i'd say it before someone else felt obliged to bring up the truth..
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Hadit
Good God! We have the male hormones on high now! That being said - the cartoon witch is hot! The pig is kinda cute.
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1st time in 10 years
by Plowboy inthats atleast 10 years..i am dealing with the lil ones and knock knock...i open the door to find a witness at the door all pretty and smiles... told her to hold on one second and made the dog quite down..she started her spill and i was like ..don't mean to be rude but born and raised a jw.
..so first words are ?
?...wait all at once...are you dfed ?...nope i just choose not to go..asked my name a couple times and encouraged me to come to meetings.
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Hadit
Welcome Plowboy! Your reaction shows you have empathy! Something that is not really taught/encouraged by the WTS. If there were more who didn't listen to them then shunning wouldn't be an issue. Good for you.
I wish you all the best.
Hadit
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Hadit
Yes - please do keep us updated - sounded like quite the spectacle! I bet the view of space out there without the light pollution is fantastic. Did you see the meteor showers?
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undercover is a scoundrel; a dastardly, good-for-nothing rogue
by undercover inat least i'm honest....
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Hadit
Scoundrels are sexy too! Remember Harrison Ford in Star Wars? Is there an undercover theme here?