Can I drop in for a minute?
How you doing Craig? As usual you are thinking. That's what it is all about, THINKING. Not just 'positive' but all thinking has power. A person with dominantly negative thoughts disproportionately attracts negative events into their lives. The same is true of a person with positive thoughts. For example, if you go into a public place angry, depressed or anxious, you will more likely interact with angry, depressed or anxious people. And going into the public with the opposite frame of mind will get like results. It's called by modern philosophers the 'law of attraction'.
Since quantum physics has been proving for almost 100 years in sub-atomic particle experiments that the observer influences the outcome of the experiment, it is no great philosophical leap to assume our thoughts/consciousness can influence our experience.
But it is not just positive thoughts. It is ALL thoughts. As for as your experience with your friend with positive thoughts that turned sour for you, he 'intended' the results. Was he very sure he would make money? Did it work? But have you considered what your thoughts were throughout? These things are complicated and cannot be expected to reflect black and white cause and affect but decades of tests have shown the 'power' of thought/intention.
Steve
Hello HS. What you say about your wife made me smile. How are you both doing?