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  Venting: I absolutly dispise the JW religion with all my heart

  by goingthruthemotions in

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  i absolutly hate the jw religion.

  i hate the fact that my wife whom i love with all my heart is so brainwashed by them.

  i hate them pos's!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  I hate the religion also. The humble sheeple I have great sympathy for. They know not what they profess.
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  Fading

  by Cordelia18 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hi i was on here a few years ago, i ended up caving to family pressure and returning to the borg i've since married and have 2 children .

  all the reasons i returned are still here, my parents are elderly and i really don't want to hurt them but i just can't do it anymore i need to leave before my kids are brainwashed, i need to be clever this time .

  last time i was dfed and became dependant on drink i am in aa and sober now and learning the true meaning of sprituality i know without a doubt that it is a dangerous cult, but i need some tips on fading, its so hard when i want to shout from the roof tops how blind they are.

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  I am glad both you and your husband are awake. COVID provides the perfect scenario for you to start your fade.

  Theocratic Warfare Suggestions:

  First step...change your phone number and have your new number blocked. Also change your email accounts and be selective about who you write to.

  I'm sure you will soon get plenty of good advice about how to plan your fade from forum members who have already successfully faded.
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  Ever wonder how to be "saved" as a JW?

  by sir82 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i was searching for something on the wt online library, and was struck by all the requirements a jw has in order to be "saved".. want to see a partial list?

  all these found by searching for "salvation depends" on wol.

  just do all 26 things, and you too can be saved!.

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  Just got a post from a JW who told me he was saved.

  I wrote back

  The Bible says of the saved that the blood of Jesus Christ God's Son cleanses us from all sin. So are all your sins forgiven and are you declared righteous? In other words are you justified before God?

  And if not, what do you mean when you say that you are saved?

  He wrote back:

  By studying the Bible and applying it in my life. I learned that "Salvation" involves:

  Gaining accurate knowledge of God and Jesus.—John 17:3.

  Exercising faith.—Romans 10:17; Hebrews 11:6.

  Repenting and turning around.—Acts 3:19; Ephesians 4:22-24.

  Dedication and baptism.—Matthew 16:24; 28:19, 20.

  Continuing to make public declaration.—Matthew 24:14;Romans 10:10.

  Doing these thing has put me on the road to salvation from sin and death.

  And the blessing of everlasting life on a paradise earth

  I can call Jehovah. My GOD. My Father and my Friend.

  “Prove yourselves sons of your Father who is in the heavens.”—Matt. 5:45.

  “[Abraham] came to be called Jehovah’s friend.”—JAMES 2:23.; Isaiah 41:8; 2 Chronicles 20:7.

  That's what I mean by Salvation.

  
  

  How would you respond to this JW?
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  New DNA Study Confirms Noah

  by notsurewheretogo in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  http://www.icr.org/article/9325/.

  amazing read...go on , have a laugh if you want to.. new dna study confirms noah.

  by brian thomas, m.s.

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  Carnby,

  I see this is your first post. Welcome to the forum! Hope you enjoy your time with us..

  Vander
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  Coping/Living/Understanding

  by justangel in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i’m relatively new to this forum but am far from new when it comes to living life as a jw.

  i wanted to throw out there my own personal experience and feelings and welcome any conversations (i’m mighty chatty and don’t have much for friends when it comes to jw’s) .

  i hit the turning of an era nearly a month ago of legally becoming an adult, raised as a j dub my whole life.

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  Hi Angel

  Your parents love you and want the best for you. Like the Watchtower, they are simply using repetition in the hope that you will grow to doubt your doubts.Feel sorry for them, do all the research you want into the organization but i recommend keeping your doubts and disagreements to yourself. I know it is and will continue to be hard. I think it wise not to try reverse witnessing strategies on them to get them to change. "OK let me think about that" could be a common phrase in your vocabulary to ward off further discussion.

  What you especially don't want is for your Mom to become frantic about your listening to satan and call in the elders to give you spiritual counseling which may lead to disfellowship.

  Hang in there Gal and stay connected with this forum.

  God bless
  
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  Had the craziest dream that my wife Disassociated from the JW cult

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  what a crazy dream, it was so cool....she came to me and told me she da'd from the cult.

  i was so happy in my dream.

  when i woke, it took me a few seconds to realize it was only a dream and that she is still brainwashed.

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  GTTE

  Let's hope your dream is prophetic.
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  Does God listen and answer prayers for coronavirus patients?

  by RULES & REGULATIONS in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  my cousin has been in a medically induced coma for the last three weeks due to the coronavirus.

  we just found out today that he was sent to rehab for physical therapy.

  he is awake, cannot walk, and cannot talk due to damage to his vocal cords from being on a ventilator for three weeks.. my cousin has many religious friends who have posted ''get well soon'' messages on his facebook page.

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  Here is a short testimonial of a believer who was totally depressed while suffering from the virus.

  
  

  https://youtu.be/Pup5pgEY7FI
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  Coping/Living/Understanding

  by justangel in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i’m relatively new to this forum but am far from new when it comes to living life as a jw.

  i wanted to throw out there my own personal experience and feelings and welcome any conversations (i’m mighty chatty and don’t have much for friends when it comes to jw’s) .

  i hit the turning of an era nearly a month ago of legally becoming an adult, raised as a j dub my whole life.

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  Vanderhoven7

  Hi Justangel

  Hope you have been welcomed to the forum on another thread. If not, welcome.

  You clearly understand what it means to be living in a cult and coping.

  You also are a caring person. You are concerned about your family and their reaction if and when they discover your true feelings. Hope you are covering your tracks well while visiting forums like this one.

  Are you baptized? Is there a chance for you to further your education while still at home?
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  Ever wonder how to be "saved" as a JW?

  by sir82 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i was searching for something on the wt online library, and was struck by all the requirements a jw has in order to be "saved".. want to see a partial list?

  all these found by searching for "salvation depends" on wol.

  just do all 26 things, and you too can be saved!.

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  Biblically speaking, salvation/justification depends on knowing Father and Son.

  It is the gift of God, so that no one can boast. Ro.6:23

  Unfortunately, many may want to point to their wonderful works on that day, yet He will say; "I never knew you"
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  New York Times: ‘People Would Be So Receptive Right Now, and We Can’t Knock on Doors.’

  by AndersonsInfo in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/19/us/politics/coronavirus-jehovahs-witnesses.html.

  the pandemic has put a stop to the activities of one of the nation’s most visible religious groups, jehovah’s witnesses.. read more: https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/19/us/politics/coronavirus-jehovahs-witnesses.html.

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  Count me as a skeptic