as I try to explain to people who don't understand JW's... it's not something you ever just "get over."
It's truly a difficult thing to explain. I don't even just mean the pain, I mean the pure craziness and complexity of it all.
Right on! That's why I enjoy this forum. You can't just talk to someone at work or a "worldly" friend about the things we were taught all of our lives. They don't understand. My wife doesn't even understand how even though when someone leaves, they still love the people they knew who they spent hours and hours with in Field service and at conventions, and the fact that these other witnesses were our entire social world. Only we know what it's like, and to me this site is therapeutic for that reason.