They have certainly lowered their standards, and particularly on some sexual matters.
Soft porn (aka non-abhorrent) is OK (wink wink) vs objectionable abhorrent porn (with greed).
Oral &/or anal sex (within marriage) are a personal matter (don't force her), vs in the past they were brazen perversions and abhorrent for a Christian.
Masturbation -- do they even address it anymore. How dumb was that policy? Statistics indicate 95% of single men admit to masturbating regularly while 5% of single men are known liars. (IDK, seems more popular with you gals too these days.)
Their position on gambling has been watered down through the years, too. Now, innocent "penny gambling" like a poker game or an occasional Lotto ticket is OK. I guess even dropping a few bucks playing slots on the Riverboat is "don't ask, don't tell". Just don't get "greedy" about it. That would be objectionable.
I wonder if we'll see some relaxing on birthdays. Already they seem to be in the "don't ask, don't tell" arena too, as long as you're not having a drunken orgy or a blow out for the kids. Just keep it quiet.
Even further evidence of the lowering of their standards, they've invited us to return to the meetings. Are ya kidding?
"I don't care to belong to any social organization that will accept me as a member." ~ Groucho Marx