Lovepeaceharmony,
Some things you wrote brought back some memories. I think the JWs used to be a kinder religion. I left before the elder system and back then the local governance was strict, but not as harse as I read about here. Also, they didn't have the stupid dating rule: only ask someone for a date if you want to marry them, a reallly stupid rule put in place by very old men who are out of touch with reality. At one time smoking was not an issue. Rutherford smoked the finest cigars he could get his hands on. When Knorr came in, smoking was frowned upon, but there was no punishment. My mother and father smoked and when they made it a dissfellowshipping offense, try as they might they couldn't quit. Although a real shame for them, it was a blessing for me, because once they were out, they could talk to me again.
Well, I can only remain serious for brief periods, so, Lovepeaceharmony, I have to get a little silly. You said that what you do wouldn't prompt others to do it. Well, let me tell you, after reading your post, I ran right out and bought a pack of cigarettes, came home and put beer on my cheerios, and followed that with several Beam and cokes. Actually, it was a pretty nice morning.:):)