I was told that the closer to the bone the more discomfort.
But you want to talk about pain. Back when I was 15 LindaLu did me wrong. She was a vacation sweetheart, took me out in the woods much like Sarah Did Joe Millionaire and then the next day she's exploring the campground with a guy with a drivers license.
Some of these old memories are much like a broken tailbone, a pain in the ass.