I think that Tornapart is asking for genuine reasons, and this is a topic that people feel very strongly about on this board. It's good to talk about it in a reasonable way- bravo to those that are doing that.
@Tornapart - The answers are out there and you don't have to be afraid of what they might be- you are a smart person and have already broken out of the WT mindest and come so far...Me so proud of u!