I am glad you explained that Kingpawn,about the telling the wife. I don't know her, but then I might, being raised in the same circuit with the MS.
I am not evil to hurt someone innocent..... I want to get that straight right away. I wouldnt take my anger , my hurt and throw it on her ,,, I swear I would not find one bit of pleasure in doing so.
My father cheated on my mother and we didnt know about for along time. By then he was already in love with the other woman, and out of love with my mother. There was nothing to stop the affair by then. So I know the heartbreak it would cause.
I have to agree she has a right to know. But I just wish there was a way to spare her, but there is not, unless I don't tell anything he has done. Besides,,,,,,,,,, the girlfriend and her friend are going to show up at his kingdom hall this weekend. They know about him, what religion he is and she is tired of him telling her that he and his wife are getting a divorce. So hopefully I wont have to tell that part.
Again,,,,,,,,,,,,,, please note that I in no way take delight in the wife's misery being married to him. She must have doubts , I bet she already suspect something, I think I would question why my hubby is out all night , into the morning hours.
But the MSrat is not who hurt me so bad............................I almost can forget about his part in the whole thing.
But what my dad did, will never stop hurting, I am angry now, and I am sure it will cool off. He is dead to me now and I will have to deal with those feelings.
But to all my friends, thanks for the support it means alot to have you all understand. You know me, I will LIVE, LAUGH, and LOVE, with my family here in this house and with you all.
Like Oprah said,,,,,,,,,,some people are toxic,,, and in order to be happy , you must let them go, put them out of your life for good. Bye Bye , Daddy.