1. Were you allowed to make choices for yourself when you were a teenager? If so were your choices restricted to those approved by the WT?
No my dad was a hardliner with the ol': "Until you're 18 you live under MY roof and follow MY rules" (needless to say I moved out long before I reached 18) and of course HIS rules were actually WTS rules. (I did secretly used to watch X-files...like many teenage girls- because david duchovny was so cute :-P )
2. As a child did you fit in with the in-group at the Kingdom Hall?
We didnt have in groups it was too cmall a congregation. I was the oldest "child" even in my teens, every0ne else was a few years younger - or over 25. So cant really comment for this one.
3. Were you part of a school team, yearbook, multi-cultural club or other extracurricular activities?
You KNOW i wasn't allowed ;-) .... but i DID sneak into lunch-hour activities such as I was head of debating team, i played indoor soccer and also took aerobics and (heaven forbid) yoga classes
4. Have you struggled with adjusting to the social norms and values of society after departing from the WT in your adult life?
absolutely.... in fact i stupidly joined anothr cult (a hindu one) thinking it would be completely the opposite but it was just the same.
5. Have you struggled with making friends in your adult life?
No I do this very well... all that TMS crap actually paid off. I'm great at meeting people and make friends everywhere.
6. Have you attended counseling after departing from the WT?
Yes many times
7. What effect has your Witness upbringing had on you, positive, negative, or a combination?
I would be lying if I said it was all negative - nothing can be totally negative.
The positives are that I like to research things, I'm very well read, I like study.
However the negatives DO outweigh by FAR: im terrible at relationships, i start things and never finish (basically everythign I do is like this), I'm a nervous wreck, although I make friends easily I can just as easily forget people and lose contact, Too many things to mention