Nancyk....
I wish that there was something I could do for you. I don't know the feeling of being isolated from my grandchildren, I can only imagine?
I don't know what they think you would do to this child? I am certain that you are interested in it's best interest also. Maybe a letter that appeals to them and assures them that you would not discuss your feelings about the ORG.
If they are trying to just hurt you, I feel that they will get their payback?
This is a terrible sad world that we live in?