Sometimes its not about money, it's more about who you know, how close you are to them and how much brown-nosing you do.
I've seen first-hand the double standards all because so-and-so is Brother So-and-So's friend or son, or daughter, or whatever else.
Something that could get you in a JC for them means just a Shep.Call.
An Elder and sister gets married, no one knew they were even dating (not even other Elders) - and that means...they've been seeing each other without supervision all alone. Who know's what goes on?
Yet anyone else gets ridden like horse for just talking to someone of the opposite sex more than they speak to others.