Thank you so much Apognophos for saying this.
Which is fine, again, if the site were at exjwatheists.net, but since this is supposed to be a place to welcome people who are doubting or leaving the religion and are likely to still believe in God, it's rather self-centered and lacking in compassion to insist that they immediately catch up to where you got to, several years after leaving the religion.
I don't know where I will end up but I do know it is supposed to be a process.
There have been times around here that I have felt on the dumb side just for wanting to ask questions.
I do understand why some don't want to go back to square one every time a "newbie" comes along.
What I don't understand is the air of superiority.
This isnt every poster however!
I want that to be clear. I am meeting some of the most amazing and warm people here and am so glad to be posting with you all.