If you want to make friends, you can. You can join a club, go to church, or invite co-workers to lunch or a drink after work.
You can't lose friends "in an instant." They were not your friends if they will ditch you so quickly, not because of their own principles, but in order to stay in the good graces of the tyrants they bow to.
Seize the day, and put the least possible trust in tomorrow. - Horace
I have learned to live each day as it comes and not to borrow trouble by dreading tomorrow. - Dorothy Dix